Originally posted by angel7030:
[quote]Originally posted by Tier:
[b]
hmm I can understand how you feel.
You are feeling neglected from his daily leisure enjoyment.
you are trying to find some similar hobbies with him so
the relationship wont dull down.
[b]But seems he is not making an effort to share his hobbies with
you.
you gotta find your own hobbies. Hope when he sees u are occupying
with your own hobbies then he will want your attention
again.[/quote[/b]]
Wha, latter she created her own hobbies, he go and start newer
hobbies of his own, then separated liao. I think as a bf, he must
understand what his gf is trying to do, even if u dun go with his
gf, he must at least suggest a sport that both can enjoy.
Sori ya, in accordance to TS posting, i find this type of bf is
damn selfish, proud, a male dominant guy with an air that expect
gal to do thing for him and then purposely refuse to accept it, and
also as someone posted here: Lame.
If it is my bf, i would long kicked his boss as part of my
hobby.[/b]
Yeah I would personally think it would be better to have a hobby
which both enjoy. But TS bf seems to want a lot of his own freedom,
and doesnt really wanna her to join in.
There nothing much she can do to change his mind about it.
But to try to talk to him about it. And persuade him to join in
with her hobbies.
Let him know your feeling about it without questioning him.
Doing things together make the bond grow stronger.
