Many of you guys and gers may have entered a relationship and
one or both of the parties may take things for granted due to
comfort or even believe that he/she knows you very well.
It comes in 2 forms in my opinion.
It can either be the kind where you simply switch off when you are
with him/her. Slacking at a corner of his/her house doing what you
wants to do. Saying tired days after days when she ask you to go
shopping with her.
The other kind will be the assuming kind. In which one party will
believe what he perceive about you is all right. They will just
push you off as what they believed. eg. i knew you will do this but
see what happens now. or i feel that you are not suitable for a
managerial posision because........
1) Why do this practice exist in a relationship. Is it an excuse
for one to slow down their pace or a break pt in the relationship?
Any ways to reduce this silence killer? Or can we say that it is a
lazy staff working on the job doing things the easy way out.
2)Taking for granted = i dun love you anymore?
3)I had observe how my married friends commit to their marriage.
Basically, it is more like working. Formal and self displine even
after working hours. Which i think that it is very tired. Working
18 hours a day. Is it the only way in maintaining a healthy
realationship? 100% commitment of your time.
4)Lastly, why do they exist and how do they come about? Is there
any other defination for their existance? All bad ? nothing
good?
We are humans not saint. However i think that this is not
acceptable to most ppl.