too trusting?

sCreaMoPuNk SG

this happens 2 years ago, and it's happening again.

it's just the same problem about friendship. i used to have a good friend 2 years ago. we were really close until he got ostracized by the class. though we still remained close, he was sad and angry at the class. he started finding faults in everyone and finally in me. we thus ended our friendship.

i have a friend now and we're really close. but recently, he appeared to be a little on and off. i duno whether we all expect this from our close friends, i expect mine to be at least: understands my character and have me for who i am. im disappointed now for not being invited to study tomorrow with my classmates. i heard he is the one who started it and invited the rest. sigh..

xcloud23x SG

hey relax.
Give u two choices

If u find him worthy to be your friend then carry on the friendship.
If u dun find him worthy to be your friend, then fark care la. Friend so many can easy find one.

sCreaMoPuNk SG

yah actually that was what i thought of. but i doubt letting go will be easy. it’s not easy to just end the friendship especially when you’re close already. but still thanks!

kengkia SG

y nid sho many fren fer what wait later ya life become rojak then u know...just let frens come naturally....for me...i still doing fine 'alone' mah... Very Happy

Isis SG

Why your thread title is "too trusting" ?

Y_Shun SG

hmm i believe more frens better reh...

kengkia SG

this one i agree to a extent....u nid help and voila....

sCreaMoPuNk SG

i put in alot of trust in my friends ma. it's like the more you put into your friendship, the more expectations you will want. and when it sucks, you just get really disappointed. but hey people! we're okay now. had a talk last night. thanks Very Happy

yuko-ogura SG

wad i want to say is, one dun judge a close true fren by that.
a close fren means he mus include u in every of his activities meh?

in my opinion,a true fren is the one who goes and bears thru shyt with u.willingly.

sCreaMoPuNk SG

thanks and what you say is really true. but i wouldnt know whether he's willing to but he said it so ytd so im good. and really it was my bad to think of him like that.

caleb_chiang SG

Rolling Eyes

kenizaton SG

halo..i used to have the same prob as u a few mths back..and now i have to be abit more 'open-minded'?..hmm..ya..sometimes u may think that u sacriface alot for a fren but the particular fren doesnt..like u give ur 100% but ur fren only gave u 70 or 80 percent?hmm..and that wld lead to a prob..try to talk to him abt the prob and maybe to solve the prob?..becoz if u dun let him noe abt this,u can only tolerate and that wld lead to more probs..i kena alot of times before..and now i finally realised this le..try to take my advice and try it out k?

all the best!

sCreaMoPuNk SG

thanks, really appreciate your advice. i let him know already a few days back and we're very good now. haha but still thanks Very Happy