gal problem

MidnightK SG

your friend seems desperate..

hao_hao SG

bro .. take this ting slowly .. step by step … a sudden infatuation for u doesnt mean she’s urs tat instant … give her some time to clear her thoughts …. or start from being close frens .. den slowly work ur way into her heart … no point rushing …. most imptly … DO NOT show tat u r desperate for her … gals hate desperate guys …..

wonderamazement SG

Few days nia and she already has feelings for you... Rolling Eyes

CoolMyth SG

Let the thing slowly boil....the final product will be sweet and tender.

If you want to fried it, prepare to get heart attack in future. Laughing

hao_hao SG

in this case .. she's desperate

MidnightK SG

TS mentioned as a good friend?
this is a simple case..
girl shows a bit of affection, guy think too much..

recall SG

dude!!

its only less than 2 weeks! from experience, you better build a foundation (a solid one while you are at it)

fairlady_xoxo SG

Hmmmm....i know you are excited and want to do things a bf would want to do for his gf...but you have to take things slowly...firstly both of you can still have time to spend so much time together is because class hasn't even started yet...so things might be different...

Let nature take its course...and try to maintain your relationship with her as friendship first....anyway all the best and cheers =D

youyayu SG

normally ppl say friends = ownself lol

dxdx SG

hoho. reminds me of me.

anyway, YES. listen to her, take things slow. dont rush into it too fast or you'll end up like me trying to patch up all the cracks in the foundation.

good luck
Laughing

aiglosicicle SG

holding hands on the first date? too quick la. the fact that she want more time means she is giving serious thought about the relationship.

New Creation SG

Well my little boy. God blesses order not legalism. As God mention in the bible, earn your keep in the field, before you build your house and then marry your spouse.

Go study well in your A levels, Know more friends and forget about her. Establish your career 1st ( in this case, doing well in ur Studies, CCA and all).

ghast. SG

dude, you guys are actually moving WAYYY too fast! no wonder, she’s scared.

cApitaland SG

pls dun play wif ger’s feelings like what my fren did to another fren of mine.

MidnightK SG

yupp..
do anything you want except hurting people's feelings..

Zarks SG

THe fark la !

TS, if this is really your case then admit it !!

Why got ppl need to post other ppls problem here ??

Arggghhhh !!

Huat da fag TS u still need to write " I... me ... " The fag.. i know this is your situation TS dun bluff .

gerrykoh SG

Just treat her as friend. Don't enter into a r/s. so fast.
Go & concentrate on yr "A' level, very crucial u do well to get into U cos without full cert. can't go far.

Most jc relationships don't last long esp. when the guys go army & the girls go uni. where they meet older guys. If u start a r/s, u may suffer heartbreak, so wait till u get into uni. there are plenty of girls.

crosshairs SG

My friend, you are 17.

DO a survey, you will find that the chances of people who do settle down and get married and have kids with their mates whom they have met when they were 17 is like......striking lottery. You do not invest in a lottery ticket, you gamble, with the odds of winning at bare minimum, but the potential returns enormous. Gambling, is at best a form of entertainment.

I hope I have made it simple for you to understand.

You're welcome.

apples SG

I confirm what crosshairs said is true! Very few can make such relationship last till marriage. I remember 2 ex-colleagues who had mates dating since school days and that's like 10 over years! Both were near the marriage milestone and then their relationships just break! I dunno the details for the break up but what a waste of time, 10+ yrs relationship!!!

Don't start relationship early. It's a lousy bet.

Zarks SG

10 years ++ r/s is surely goin down or break up soon.

The r/s is too long and if they both never upgrade their r/s to the nex level, it will just become dull. Too dull means nothing new in their r/s. Watever type of sex also they already tried lol.

Ppl said its the best if your r/s is around 2-3 years then get married.. the feeling is still fresh anyway.. Most ppl ended up getting married after 1 and half year of r/s

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