Drinking can damages your liver, brain etc. It is a temporary
solace and when people start to abuse it, it becomes very
problematic. And there you go, you create suffering for yourself
again. Smart bo?????
And, boy boy, not all relationships are rosy rosy like you imagine
to be. The love that you crave for might not turn out what you
intend it to be. Love can hurt like hell.When there is happiness,
there is saddness. They are actually the two sides of coins. Just
look at the threads in AA about relationship.. If you can't manage
to love yourself, you will have problems in life and in your
relationship with people. It is inter-connected.
If your emotional health is ill, then isn't it common sense for one
to see a psychiatrist or at least a counseller for help. Being
stubborn and close-minded will not solve the problem.