I know her for coming to 5 months and during this 5 months, as
usual as most guys will do to a girl when he likes her.
Communicating with her, attentive to her needs and so on...
Few months ago, I told her that I like her. No response so I wait
and carry on dating her.
Few weeks ago, she told me she likes me too but she is not ready
for a relationship. Fine. I will give her the time and also the
time for both of us to trust and commit more. We are both working
adult. Financially independent.
She is a girl who has plenty of suitors.
The funny thing is, I will really like to hear from the ladies that
when you like a guy, will you meet him even though you are busy or
with your group of girl-friends or after your activity be it work,
friends or family.
Ladies, another question is, when you know that there are other
suitors after you, and when another guy ask you out for movie, will
you go? As for my case, she went ahead and for everyone info, I
only went for movie with her once and it was in a case where she
was not willing to go.
My inner voice is telling me that it is not because she doesn't
want to go into a relationship. She likes the courtship from man.
It is consider very sweet and is even better than in
relationship.
For the man,
Am I sensitive to the extend that allowing her to go out with other
suitors even she told me that she is going for a movie date with
this guy cause she promise to go?
For the past few months, I'm so tired going after her. I have gave
her all my love but she isn't. Sometimes I feel that she is testing
my endurance limit and try to push me to the limit. I am sensitive
to her needs and being very understanding at all times. I don't
mind BUT if she doesn't love you, it hurts so badly.
Lastly, do you all think that when you are after a girl or a guy,
one should remain consistent in his/her target and not be
distracted by other choices?
When I'm dating a girl, I will choose to think in a way that I will
not go out with other girls except her and if it work out. I doubt
anyone will like the feeling of seeing the person you like to go
out with another suitor.
I really try my best for this relationship.
