ellisbeck SG If something every happened to him, and you get to know of it, you will regret it for the rest of your life. Don't ever say things like that frivolously because you never know the person's emotional state. I am sharing this based on my work experiences..
thehappybunny SG im not encouraging irrational behaviour…but do you even have the guts to kill yourself? saying it is one thing, doing it is another.
knockonmydoor SG build up your self-esteem learn to love yourself for all it's worth, even if it's not brad pitt.
MidnightK SG does it matter? only the fittest survive.. so if someone ask him to jump and he does, who's the stupid one? no gf, no looks wanna die.. weak
Nikar2 SG if you're fugly, then you need to celebrate and be happy, because fugly people usually end up with very chio chicks. it happens everywhere, i tell you. even my sister's bf is not very good-looking though she's pretty. and for me, i'm good-looking, so that means my wife will be a fugly pig.... handsome guys like me should be the ones feeling depressed and sad. i'm very worried.
Aaron8209 SG bhb so handsome sia handsome boy…look doesnt matter…imptt is inner beauty …we know u have a kind soul..so dun give up try harder.NO one is perfect.
browniebaobao SG are u overly sensitive? Did anyone ever tell u right in your face that u are ugly? always remember, it doesn't matter much if u dun have a pretty face.. as long as u have a beautiful heart.
sEphIrOth SG i m below ave. im not nice and i dont receive nice comments only for certain facial features distinctively. my mom says so too. but i cover my flaws with other things. things that make people forget i lack strength in my facial and bodily outlook. and because of my strengths, i have frens, a good family and a devoted girl. so why cant you?
N0body SG anyway u r right.looks do matter. i have low self confidence too when i am in my teens. but things change when i grow up. anyway since born ugly..u cant do anything rite? my tips. looking ugly is okie.. u can make urself look cleaner. tidy and clean and pleasant. will do the trick. all the best
redstone SG how old are u now? I know of people who didnt find their first gf/bf til like they’re in their mid 20s.
ahsiang12 SG Females should start finding boyfriends after 20 and males should start finding girlfriends after 25.This is what a Buddhist monk said.For threadstarter, you should not be in self-pity, you should spend time saving the world.
Yunhaier SG If you always reckon that you live a pathetic life, you always will. I wondered what kind of help you need. To me, only you can help to change yourself - nobody else can because this is self affliction. What happens is that you prefer to wait for solution in a problem that doesn't drop you a solution. You want someone to save you from your perceived 'pathetic destiny' - but I can tell you, there isn't such a person. If you don't have initiative to change yourself, nothing will happen. What likely would happen is that you would log off your computer and resume leading a 'pathetic life'. And I tell you, you don't have to live with such a destiny. You hold the key to resolve your misery. This key doesn't lies with somebody else. Cheers
dmuse SG hey bro, nobody is ugly. go give yourself a good scrub and keep to healthy regimes (mind and body). soon you will attract all the nice people around you. cheer it up.
PPG SG looks won't get you far; only character. but improving your looks would definitely boost your self-esteem, so for now just study hard, next time you can consider going for a make-over.
Virus92 SG tts sounds good n all but we all know tts not wat ppl really believe. Who among us actually likes sum1 cus they're beautiful inside?
Allen.Iverson SG trust me on this but looks arent the key. its only temporal and superficial. u might see girls ogling hot guys and all that but in the end girls would choose someone stable and able to provide comfort and the right company. try to groom urself as best as u can. always look ur best no matter what but dont overdo it. always improve yourself. learn new things. try to be the best at everything u do but dont be overly competitive. when u improve urself ppl will realise u possess traits and abilities and recognise u for that. girls will too eventually. something else important is to keep fit. ur body is something u definitely can change and will add points to ur image. LOTS of points. that is if ure genuinely willing to put in effort to workout. look at all the hot chicks and look at their partners. u realise their all not very good looking actually. but they have really good character and are fun-loving and confident. this is what attracts them. if ur gona pity urself and do really foolish things like committing suicide, then its too bad for u cos u have so many years of ur life ahead of u that would look so much brighter if u did something positive as mentioned above. develop ur confidence. its extremely important. its something i severely lack in, but im at least making an effort in building up my confidence. soon u will realise that life is not about looks. but how u live life to the fullest. enjoy life because there are many others who lost their lives so suddenly and unpredicted. im sure they would be willing to live again given the chance. fu.ck the thought of being pathetic cos ure not. ure an able bodied guy. ure not deaf dumb and blind and limbless which is something u should already be thankful for. do something about ur life if ure really willing to change urself. then soon the girls will come =)
