Hey guys, I'm in real dilemma & agony as well. Last year, I
hired a maid for my parents, she's 24 and a local university
graduates. Her looks is decent and have a fair skin. The reason I
hired her is not because of her looks but her education background.
She can speak English fluently and hardworking as well. After my
parents prefer not to have maid, I took her to my place.
So far I never had any problems encountered with her. I had a
private room, more like an entertainment room which have a nice
plasma television, video game consoles and small side bar. I
usually lock it and don't allow anyone to enter without my
permission. The reason is I'm afraid my stuffs would be
stolen.
To be honest, I kept my pornographic dvds in that room. And the
problem started since last week.
One day, I forget to lock my private room and went out because I
received an urgent call from outside. I'm kinda rushing and forget
to lock my private room. When I'm outside the house, I just realize
the situation but I just moved on.
I went back home and faster take a look in my private room.
Everything is fine, nothing lost. My maid didn't touch anything
from there. I told her not to enter my private room before. So
since that day, my habit of forgetting to lock my room begins.
Another reason is I trusted her after she working so long for
me.
One afternoon, I'm working half day and went back home. I checked
my room and it seems that someone using my room. I asked her and
she said she didn't enter my room. I thought I'm just too tired
because of piles of projects need to be settle. So I just don't
bother about it.
Again, one afternoon. I went back home and she didn't greet me at
the door. Usually she will open the door for me. So I entered my
house, and surprisingly she was sitting at my private room sofa and
watch my porn while masturbating.
To prevent awkwardness, I rose my voice and said I'm back home. She
hastily closed everything, greet me and said sorry. I scolded her
and she cried. After that she explained everything, she said she is
lonely. She begged me not to fired her as she comfortably stays
here.
Then yesterday, she talked to me. Actually we talked like normal
friend because of our age gap. She told me she regret what she have
done. I told her that I forgive her and I understand her situation.
She asked me what do I think about her and she said she will have
sex with me if I wish to without taking any responsibility. She
hugged and kissed my tongue. I had french kiss with her until I
decided this is wrong. I excused myself and went to bed.
Guys, I'm in real dilemma. I feel it's extremely wrong to have sex
with our employee. But I don't want to fired her because I felt
guilty. She is hardworking and honest girl. She told me how awful
to go back to Indonesia.
So what should I do? I need a good solution without sacking her if
possible. Please help me to solve this problem together.
I think she had feelings towards me, and I kind of a guy who
soft-hearted and not dare to hurt others feelings.
Thank you very much.