wld u rather be lonely or disappointed?

dearie^^ SG

in love, many a times, there are disappointment. more often than not, a relationship never turns out the way we want it (agree?). wld u rather stay single to avoid the disappointment?

Diehard_89 SG

lonely

but sometimes when you are lonely you get disappointed too..and that's worse

fairlady_xoxo SG

Sometimes all you need is a companion that doesn't ask for so much but ah well...its never easy...being single has its merits (you tend to be more available for many other things), basically its the commitment issue. No one wants to commit too much and in the end either get hurt or get nothing out of it...it takes 2 hands to clap.

On the context of being lonely...it depends...you may not feel lonely if you spend time with your friends and family no? Spending time with the special someone does not mean it will be the best experience ever...

So take your time to look around...no harm meeting new people...rather than sticking to the same person...as you grow up...the things you want are different...and what you expect of others will also be different...

Keeping your options open for now (if you are single) will be a better option.

Thats...my personal opinion =)

popikachu SG

hmm...
neither of those can be of an option too...

it is how you view life as...

EarlNeo SG

If u are in love too many a time, u should have gotten use to the game and wont hope for much and hence stop disappointing.

As for lonely? Do u mean by living alone with no fren or family. Oh that kinda suck. But if just without r/s, lonely might be a tough nut to crack at 1st, but soon like all thing, once familiarity set in, lonely ain so bad, try to think more in the line of freedom!

Tier SG

I will choose to meet the right one. be positive, u will meet the one who will not disappoint you.

@®+ SG

lonely...
coz, I find no reason to get disappointed

M©+square SG

Just another opinion.

Being single doesn't mean you're lonely.

It's coping being ALONE. Alone doesn't literally mean loneliness. Because there are other important things which one should consider.

If a person's head start of a thought that being a single is being lonely and not alone.
There is something he/she should look into to rectify in that security issue.

Zarks SG

Well, u wont be lonely if u be with me

dearie^^ SG

Originally posted by fairlady_xoxo:

as you grow up...the things you want are different...and what you expect of others will also be different...

agrees Very Happy

n by lonely, i dont mean no friends or family..i mean, to have someone special to share everything with. its just different when u share ur happiness with that someone special, and when u share it with ur friends or family. u can have a future with that someone special, u can have dreams with that someone special..its just a very special feeling............too bad doesnt last long =x

de_middle SG

to avoid disappointment by choosing to be single is an escape........ Neutral

fairlady_xoxo SG

Then that's when you know he isn't the right one...take your time..i believe you are young...so there's no rush actually...it will be worse if you're desperately searching for that someone...trust me..you won't want to go to that stage...

icyboiz SG

true, but i wun give up

browniebaobao SG

i rather be alone and save the heartbreaks.