sEphIrOth SG hymen is a piece of skin.. but arguably virginity is a state of mind? physical intensity for the 1st time? experiences? much more than a piece of skin i guess.
extrinsic SG yup, state of mind does matters to some *sigh*... strangely, this "virgin" concept only applies to asian.. anyway, unless u r a V, u sld not ask for a V. thats wad i feel.
sEphIrOth SG true. so i said im in no position to comment cuz asia is a big conservative society(applies to me too ) that is why virginity is seen as purity. actually its not western values that virginity is seen as devalued or less important but because of globalization and modernization that caused it to be nothing. virgins are a bonus but purity is something everyone wants. however, makes me wonder when u see girls who suck d*cks and getting fingered by so many men but are still virgins...makes me wonder whether the definition of virginity is ruined
LordIcarus SG yes of course. i said my principles. perhaps the culture got to me. you think if you were to tell your parents your gf/bf is not a virgin they won't have a second view at the person?
MidnightK SG don't think parents will ask?? but bf/gf should have a clear line drawn.. no staying over and stuff like that.. the girls will be deem as "loose"
LordIcarus SG yeah. no offence but many loose people these days. all the principles of life are gone. i wonder my daughter, how would she be like if i had one? & anyway. i asked her if she regretted her actions. she said no.
MidnightK SG best thing, don't have kids.. no headache.. well, no regrets means she's okay with it.. think twice, maybe thrice about being with someone like that..
BadzMaro SG Question: Do u like.. fresh... clean.. Kobe beef, OR , Stale.. old and soggy steak ? So its o.k.. to reject bad meat. Its o.k... dont feel bad or sad. But nowadays , most people like stale , old and soggy steak. Are you one of them ?
BadzMaro SG its easier to find old , stale and soggy steaks... unfortunately.. Why do we always chose to eat bad steak. Sigh... forgot to answer ur question. I would chose... kobe beef.. but i know i will still accept old , stale and soggy steaks.
MidnightK SG hahaha.. i think they won't disclose neither will you ask am i right? guess we are all the same
BadzMaro SG First few dates i will know already. Asking will be a sign to get 100% sureties... and also to see if she is lying. But normally it seldom come to that. he he..
LordIcarus SG but i'm appreciative she's honest. (: what an agony to be in this position. i feel like a dick even being upset about her past.
