well i guess.... everyone...everyone no matter how much u say u
dun mind, will have even a slightest tinge of jealous? hatred?
anger? in you. it seems that love itself can overcome things, but
what's the past is the past. it has been done, u can do nothing
about it. but the position of thinking is one thing that bothers
the people.
u will think how intimate she has been. how impure she has been.
how "dirty" (for some people) she has been. How slutty she has
been. but what can you do is to accept and move on. If not, let go
and move on.
Can u do anything? stitch back her hymen? Sure! but the fact is
that she isnt a virgin. face it. the fact that she has been honest,
she has given u her fullest. being angry at her will definitely
make her helpless. no point...
what u can do is.. think about why she did it, put urself in her
shoes. ask if in doubt to clear ur mind. why she did it? why did
she allow it? Picture it. Then understand the whole story. after a
few times, u should get over it.
Personal experience into the context of virginity.