Not sure if I should post here. But here goes.
Wanted to organise birthday dinner few weeks before my birthday.
Was initially set, confirmed. With A, B, C. Then suddenly 2 days
before the date, A said she was busy. 1 day before, B said he was
busy. The bloody 15 mins after the supposed meeting time, C said he
was busy. So in the end? All pang seh. Nvm... lucky I was in a
forum outing. So had dinner with the forum people.
Earlier this week, wanted to org again. So one again sms same
people. Once again, all said busy. Except A. So nvm, I sms other
people. D comes into the picture. As A and I were close friends..
She wanted to "celebrate" on the BBQ our organisation was planning.
I said, I rather have a small quiet dinner with close friends than
a loud event with many people I'm not close with. She said okay. So
she called me, and said her bf will be coming, since she thought
will be only 2 of us. I said no, there will be someone else. Then
one day, suddenly she said she and her bf would be able to make it
for the dinner. Even set the date for me? I was like "wtf" liao,
since I don't know the bf very well. I had already told her i
wanted a close dinner. Then I hinted A & D not to bring xtra
people. Since i wanted to spend my special day with close
friends.
Our grp had BBQ few days ago, but I missed it because I overslept
(didnt sleep previous night). When I woke up, still blur blur, I
suddenly remembered the bbq. If I were to rush down immediately, it
would had ended, so i smsed her, said I'm sorry, I cant make
it.
Groggily, I saw the msg, she asked me what I meant by bf can't
come. But I deleted it. few days later, I asked again, since D and
confirmed and I wanted to reserve seats liao. Then suddenly she got
angry "y shld i reply ur qns when u didnt reply mine".
Then... die liao. Small arguement. She sounded angry, ask me why bf
cant go. Then I said very clearly i wanted to spend dinner with
close friends, since I considered it very important, for me, to
spend special day with my close friends. Didn't reply for few
hours, until I got a sms, said she'll "think about it".
Well, I really don't know how to settle this case. 
