hi guys!
Haven't login for so long.
I have a question. Where do u find higher guidance? Not the sci-fi
type or the religious type, but about say... work issues.
my colleague "A" keeps being late for meetings. I'd told him off a
few times, but he always have excuses.
Colleague "B" who is in the same team as us, is not bothered by
coll "A"'s lateness among other faults. He tells me he always look
at the big picture. He says things like "to change someone else u
must first change urself." I was quite pissed as I was trying to
get him to stand on my side to tell Coll A off on his lateness
problems. So when Coll B gave me this "to change someone else u
must first change urself" mumbo jumbo, I replied with a "Can u
suggest how I can change myself such that Coll A will be on
time?"
Coll B replied "I chose to overlook the faults of Coll A,"
I said "Then how is this going to help him improve himself??"
Coll B replied "I focus on what I am supposed to do and do
it."
AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!
win already lor.
I really don't know how to handle the situation. I simply can't
stand Coll A's lateness. I can't understand how Coll B can tolerate
Coll A.
Is there anyone with similar experience?