what is she thinking ??

last SG · 2007-12-14T12:33:02+00:00

http://youtube.com/watch?v=B2pR_7481vc TS dont be sad. i specially choose this song for you. Cheer up.

subaru67 SG

she just enjoy yr company

Uncertain SG

I dun think she makes use of u but rather wanna befriend u.

Dude, if u truly like a person, really heed the this advice:"Go slow, wait for 2 years down the road and c how. If she is still not interested, dun bother about her anymore and move on to the other target."

Remember it is she who is not worthy of ur love, not u. U have taken all ur courage to confess ur feeling but if she just doesn't care then no point confessing anymore cos the day where she accepts u will never come.

storywolf SG

Because - you say it - you the one who ask for it Smile

de_middle SG

haven't started always professing ur LOVE Laughing

dun rush, not meant to be just leave it.....just like looking for a JOB Neutral

subaru67 SG

maybe a crush

extrinsic SG

TS thinking: "if she dont really like me, why agree to meet me and allowing me to send her home ??? so she must have like me, but why don't accept me?"

her thinking: "kuku, me u no chemistry, thats why"

but hard to say also la, if u believe in not giving up, u mite touch her heart after a v long chase, but u gt this endurance bo. i guess not, from the way u post this thread. not every ger must like u just becuz u treat her nice de hor.

applesweetgirl SG

i think you are only thinking you're in love with her, since you keep being rejected...something like, "bu fu shu"? don't know la
aiya. take a look at some other girls ba. it's easy to forget people.

i used to think i really really really love this guy.
then someone better came along.
then i found that i didn't like that previous guy that much after all.

just a crush.

pwnz0r SG

cos she's neutral towards you.

liking a person does not necessarily translate into a love relationship.

i have many other friends out there who are very pretty and attractive girls and we meet up from time to time. i do not interpret this normal meeting up as anything more than friendship.

perhaps you should also learn how to be a normal human being and not treat everyone you're crazy about as a target.

as always, take things slow if you are serious. if you want to try try, see fun or not, or to have a fling, just go masturbate your frustrations out.

tomage00 SG

old dun go,new one how to come.
it only a gal,dun waste ur time lah.
send her home only waste more of ur time,since he got a bf,ask him send lor.WHY U?
get a gf,den u will find tt wat u have been doing n thinking is abit stupid.
SO.....move on.

charlize SG

Spend more time on your work lah.

You cannot live on love and fresh air alone. Laughing

798 SG

i find this gal very strange. if she dun like u, why did she still daring to let u to give her a rise after u confessing a few time?

maybe she's just using u as her driver.

subaru67 SG

worst case scenario

nonohow SG

Bro, actually I have the same problem as u

Sakuraflower SG

I think that you and her have chance...

But if she had a good bf that treat her well , then just be friend with her !

Hello Kitty SG

Rolling Eyes

me is ger.

me knw de.

angel7030 SG

I simply dun understand, why guys are like that, they like to destroy each other life, look guys, in knowing that a gal is attached to another guy, why keep pestering her to accept you, aren't u going to make the other guy sad when u succeeded? Please lah, have a thot for the other brother of your on the other side of her.

Even if i have a liking for another man, i will not leave my bf as we gal dun like to hurt guy feeling ya. Trust and Love to us is very important.

Yunhaier SG

You assumed her intention seemed to suggest that she is giving you a chance to 'prove yourself' - but there's absolutely nothing for you to prove because she is already very clear in her positioning - three times to be precise - that there's only enough room for you to be a friend and no further.

You are probably the conventional type of guy who needs absolute answer from your crush to get your butt moving. But the truth is that in Love, is always the grey - you don't normally get black-and-white answers simply just because you need them.

It's not even about hinting - she has blatantly said 'No' thrice - if that isn't enough to let you see the light, I can tell you that the result from further attempts will hardly differ.

Why coerced someone to love you when you are just not the fit?

Why force a piece into a puzzle and make things ugly?

If you are unable to handle rejection and accept a mere friendship, I would suggest you take the initiative to cut contact, than to escalate your situation and pressure her to 'cut your contact'.

Nothing about face issue - if you are not emotionally evolved to handle it, my advice is always to avoid facing the predicament. Idea

Cheers

Nadare SG

friendship ? or she quarrel with her bf and needs someone to pei her

huiz SG

i think she is making use of you. you have a car, right?

Darkness_hacker99 SG

I beg to differ.

I feel that if one waits long enough, that day might really come. Of course I don't mean wait & do nothing. I mean be by her side as a friend, be there when she needs you.

As time passes, who knows she might fall in love with you one day?

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