TRUST is a
very important factor for all relationships. When trust is broken,
it is the end of the relationship. Lack of trust leads to
suspicion, suspicion generates anger, anger causes enmity and
enmity may result in separation.
A telephone operator told me that one day she received a phone
call. She answered, Public Utilities Board. There was silence.
She repeated, PUB. There was still no answer. When she was going
to cut off the line, she heard a ladys voice, Oh, so this is PUB.
Sorry , I got the number from my Husbands pocket but I do not know
whose number it is.
Without mutual trust, just imagine what will happen to the couple
if the telephone operator answered with just Hello instead of
PUB.
NO POINTING FINGERS
A man asked his father-in-law, Many people praised you for a
successful marriage. Could you please share with me your
secret?
The father-in-law answered in a smile, Never criticize your wife
for her shortcomings or when she does something wrong. Always bear
in mind that because of her shortcomings and weaknesses, she could
not find a better husband than you.
We all look forward to being loved and respected. Many people are
afraid of losing face. Generally, when a person makes a mistake, he
would look around to find a scapegoat to point the finger at. This
is the start of a war. We should always remember that when we point
one finger at a person, the other four fingers are pointing at
ourselves.
If we forgive the others, others will ignore our mistake too.
CREATING PERFECT RELATIONSHIPS? {...}
