what topic to start?

siansterr SG

i got this prob,everytime i get to noe a new frens from frenster or msn,firstly i add them to my msn,then chat wif them for the first day,like asking wat sch are they,etc.but after certain times i had no topic to tok,so no tok,other then saying hi.how to make them like become a close frens?like to craps..i seen some ppl got so many gans or frens.so how? pardon my stupidlity n ignorance Embarassed Crying or Very sad

skeujin SG

ask them about their day, talk about personal interests / hobbies, food where to find n whats good to eat. organise outings….

gunner77 SG

try and understand the way they talk

798 SG

start off by introduce urself, ask them for some background bout themselves but not to extend of investigating their personal space.

finally ask bout their interests n share wif them ur interests as well. most important thing is chicks love praise n sweet talk. Razz

siansterr SG

hmm..like how?if they the ones that like to ''hehe'' "haha" then nth to tok liao..

i try toking craps or certain topics to them,but ending up onli got 2 words came out.."hehe" "haha" don know wat to do next or tok next liaos.. Crying or Very sad

siansterr SG

hmm..thx fer ur info Very Happy still not enorgh nidda gather more Cool

gLc SG

ppl can always tell u what sorta topics to start and blah blah.. whats important is it must come naturally, this kinda thing, cannot teach one lah.

798 SG

dunno bout u, actually i find online is very easy to express oneself when one can be cheeky, naughty n outspoken.

u will be surprise dat many pple r daring when they r online.

gunner77 SG

if u talk crap and they "hehe" "haha"
i suggest u don talk to them, coz they don bother.
if u talk crap and someone crap back at u, tat means she is interested in the convo. get wat i mean ?

gunner77 SG

i agree with tis 100%