What do you and your GF talk about on the phone?

last SG · 2007-11-17T17:46:21+00:00

If you just can't talk on the phone then I think it's ok cause some people are just not as good on the phone. If you can't click with her when talking in re...

fifteen SG

I don’t know what to talk about on the phone when she calls me. It’s like imagine we are in different schools but we live very near to each other. She does not have a handphone so she normally calls me. But on the phone its like nothing to talk about because we are in different school and like we have nothing really in common to talk about except when we go out. If its going to go on like this, the relationship is not going to last long.

T E M P O SG

pity you. i can imagine that, you wont have anything much to talk about actually…oh well. try things like hobbies? you/hers..

thehappybunny SG

when both parties have nothing in common…then the r/s not likely to last

CannyOng SG

Maybe as a guy u shall start the ball rolling first... Read some news then u will be able to crap something up...

oOprinceOo SG

hey bunny Very Happy .haha

ts u gotta try to find topics. the negative thing is that on da phone u gotta react to wad she says and does almost immediately.

but fer da sms u'll have time to think and w/e .

so i encourage u to try tuh surf da internet for useful topics ands stuffs. and try to find out her hobbies.

most IMPORTANTLY DO YOUR HOMEWORK. Laughing

i used to have da problem lol. but now i spend most of the time with her instead of on da phone.

oOprinceOo SG

urgh. homework as in research fer topics not fer school stuffs xD

VagueHart SG

Try to break the ice loh... like eh what you doing now? Eat le mah? What you eat?? Den start with things like eh you know got what movie etc etc den discuss bout it loh.. yar abit gossipy but at least your still chatting right?

But really depends on your GF is what type.. if she is those keep read news de den read up and talk to her loh.. know what she likes and chat about it...

Btw dun use topics like hey how's studies or the weather veh nice horh... end up veh cold one.. lol

Pudu_Jacko SG

how old r u?????

fifteen SG

Hmm, my previous also like that. The funny thing is that on the phone got nothing to talk one. Only on SMS then send like hell. Don’t know why. And my previous one is from my school but different level only. As in different age therefore different level.

fifteen SG

Teenage age range. Below 20. Not convenient to disclose in public sorry. Hmm, still studying. Hmm, normally I will try to ask her questions like "eat dinner already?". But after all I talk then ended up nothing to say liao. Common questions like what are you doing is every time pick up the phone ask de. I would say she is kinda obedient. As in like daddy's girl. Not nerd I mean. But listens to her parents. She seldom gets to go out. But the advantage is that she lives next block to me.

Pudu_Jacko SG

above 18?

fifteen SG

Nope... Lols..

icyboiz SG

just talk about what happen in sch etc loh,

Q.C.Pak SG

TS...try acting like TrainMan and post in Forum...sure got ppl help Laughing

fifteen SG

Whats train man? And, we not same school. But live very very near each other. Just next to my block.

k2406 SG

don't worry dude. can't talk on the phone seems quite common from my observations. some couples are just like that.

sometimes when i talk with my gf there are those damn uncomfortable silences where 1 second seems like 1 hour.

doesn't mean r/s gone case if cannot talk on the phone.

purpledragon84 SG

abit off-topic.. but since she lives next block, to "salvage" ur relationship, can spring surprises at her hse more often ah.. get a small gift, sit at her house there staircase chat and all.. simple and fuss-free..

unless ur relationship is underground de then LL..

as for what to chat.. try telling her wat u did for a start(but dun keep toking abt urself) and pay attention to her social circle.. her friends and stuff.. be gossipy with her.. of course cannot be all the time chat chat non stop on every phone call.. so good luck..

Chris1988 SG

are you those who are shy to say,

i love you

these 3 words?

if you are than try learning to speak up. be more confident. but of course i don't mean you say them on an empty basis. because at the end of the day, *touch wood* if both of you 'chi-ba-boom' those 3 words are merely just empty words.

the best i would say is that since both of you live near each other, why don't you just meet up under your blk for a chat or smth? if run out of topic to talk can walk walk around your neighbourhood. maybe can treat her to some bubbletea.

Mr. Green

try not to communicate too often on sms or msn where feelings can't be expressed properly. since its pretty one-sided where you can't really see the other party emotions. especially when there's a quarrel.

Cool-gal SG

i cant rem when was the last i chat with my ex-bf le...
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lololololx2 SG

don't call lor O.o

i don't like phone calls either. in fact, i DETEST them. unless it's my bitchy gossiping best friend xD