Usually lovers feel secure at the presence of their sweetheart.
Actually security denotes mental emotional security than the
physical presence.
How can we define insecurity feeling? Or on what do you depend for
your sense of security? The simplest answer is that if you feel
confident enough, if you are at peace with yourself you have all
the rights to feel secure.
Just like one plus one equals two, for joining hands with your
lover you should have doubled confident, doubled peace of mind and
of course doubled feeling of security. It is common among lovers
that they feel insecurity in the relationship. There could be so
many reasons behind the feeling of insecurity. Negative self
images, attitudes towards life, unable to know and understand your
lover, disability to cop up with changing life situations, lack of
trust etc... can bring the feeling of insecurity in you.