Originally posted by Broke_Sista84:
Current Age: 23
Gender: Female
Highest qualification: GCE 'N" level
Work experiences: 2 years of Sales and 5 years of admin
Currently Not Working.
Bank Account Saving : Ard $2k
Character: Lazy, unmotivated, easily give up, easily irritated and
low self-esteem.
Career, education, life n wealth = I have none.
Career - I dont know what I'm really interested in.
Education - What should I study?
Private O, private diploma (business mdis) or LCCI
secretarial
Life - Never been in a relationship.True friends only - 2.
Wealth - Ard $2k (Had to help out parent's debts. 5years. Just
finished this month THANK YOU GOD!!!)
[b]What do you think I should do?
1 - work full time admin and study part time (when I save enough
for the course fee. If study, which course which I study?)
2 - work full time admin and take up adam khoo's self-improvement
course since my Character ....(read above) then decide from
there?
Or what do you people think I should do?
[/b]
Sista,
You need to fix this first
" Character: Lazy, unmotivated, easily give up, easily irritated
and low self-esteem."
For every one of these undesirable trait, there is a reason behind
it.
You are lazy because you are unmotivated.
You give up easily because you don't see what's so worthy at the
end of all the hard work.
You feel easily irritated because you are lost and needed some
guidance.
You have low self-esteem because you focused on your weakness
instead of your strengths.
If you cannot fix those fundamental problems, nothing in your life
will be worth doing.
Employers don't like lazy employees, you will realize you cannot
keep a job, you will be constantly job hopping, by age 30, your
resume will be an embarrassment.
Studying takes lots of determination and effort and hard
work.
If you are lazy and gives up easily, you will not be able to
complete anything.
ESPECIALLY part-time studies plus FULL time working, requires
plenty of self-discipline.
Relationship requires plenty of patience and giving and your low
self esteem is just gonna make you a very unbearable person to be
with.
How can any relationship survive ?
Girl, at least you realized your bad points, now what you need to
do is work on it.
If you don't start improving yourself now, in 10 or 20 years time ,
you'd still have nothing.
NO Career, education, life n wealth. Period.
Nevertheless, you are a very giving person to help out your
parent's debt.
Now with the same kind of perseverance, you can start saving for
your studies or retirement funds.
Private studies are not cheap. And you will need to save for rainy
days.
Full time studies is a luxury you cannot afford.
Right now, you have no job, means no contribution to CPF ,
medisave, and no safety net to fall back on.
All you have now is your 2k and more expenses.
With your N level, you should consider taking up some part-time
certification, with it you can further yourself into diploma. Just
make sure the cert you take allows you to go into a diploma or
other higher level education.
What course you take.
First you need to figure out what your strong points are.
Are you good with numbers ?
Are you good with people ?
Are you a leadership material ?
Are you good in teaching others ?
Are you good in analysis ?
etc.
Then you look at what the courses has to offer and consider if you
can survive the subjects.
Next thing you need to do... don't look back.
