Does love still exist after marriage?

mir4cle SG

love still exist after marriage. but i guess couples tend to lose the friendship they once had before they got married.

what attracted both of them to each other in e first place? and what got them to decide to be married to each other? it's love, isnt it? i think most of them tend to forget the wonderful memories they once shared.

FocusPoint SG

Of course love still exist after marrying or settling down not after marriage. If after marriage means divorce liao Laughing

What married couples go through especially like what my wife and I are going through is call 'ember' love that means it's still burning hot but slow and steady like the ember. You do not see the actual fire going on but it's there and it's intensely hot and it's hard to put out even when douse with water. Picture a forest was on fire and even after a heavy downpour the chances of the forest start to burn up again is great. Why? Because of the embers simmering hot below.

Now for youngsters or couples that are in the middle of a courtship, the love they experience are known as 'raging' love or 'lie huo' in chinese. Their kind of love is like the physical fire, burning and burning away, igniting anything or everything in their way BUT if they aren't careful their fire will be easily put out. A simple thick 'blanket' can do that because their love cannot withstand the trials and errors.

Actually love is one part of the marriage package. Love comes with understanding and accomodating to one another too.

Ok, that about sums it up and I hope it answered your query Razz Razz Razz

ORIGAMIST SG

Next week, my wife and I will be celebrating 25 years of marriage .. during pak tor days, I will always be rushing to see her ... young you may say .. after marriage I still do the same thing, finish work rush home to see her ... today, I am still the same ... not much have change, I still want to see her immediately after work ... is this love ?? I can't say the same with her but I know she loves me ... maybe not the same as in par tor day but there is love, you know it and you can feel it ...

After 25 years, yes I say there is love after marriage.. it is how you want your marriage to work ... take hard work and sacrifice ... either this or that, no two way about it . . . .

pwnz0r SG

there are many many definitions of love… so pls define your query properly or else I can’t answer.

angel7030 SG

Sure does, love do exist after marriage, and infact some even become stronger.

I use to see, both locally and overseas, old/mature caucasian couples holding hands together, helping each other, and even kisses each. It really warmed me that love do exist till the end of time, they alway have my admiration and I am so envy of them. Hope that i can find a love partner and end my old age as lovely as them.

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