Are there times where your other half felt like a stranger?

p00rme SG

Are there times where ur other half felt like an stranger to you? Like you thought you know him/her very well but there are still things which u dont really know at all?

Juz wondering if anyone came across such incidents, thats all........

sEphIrOth SG

i make sure i dig out most of the things. duno juz ask. i dunwan a shady relationship. it may cause more friction but at least for me, i have the ease that she told me everything.

de_middle SG

definately will have, dun assume u know each other to well Neutral

jojobeach SG

Yes, it is normal to feel this way.

I have met my other half and believe he is truly my soul mate.

We almost think alike and we can finish saying what the other started.
Like we are so in sync it does get a little spooky.

However, there are times when we feel like we are total strangers.

Let's put it this way, I myself don't dare to say I know myself very well.
So how can I expect someone else to know me more than I do ?

So it is best not to second guess what your partner is thinking, just ask for the honest truth.

TXian SG

Yes..it happened. I told him straight that I felt he is like a stranger to me. he was very shocked and confused.

But that time was because dunno what happened, he seems distant. It was a passing episode. And I told him it is important we talk and communicate.

angel7030 SG

Sure do, because both of you are infact strangers just managed to cross each other in life by the line of fate, coincidence or simply by luck.

Darkness_hacker99 SG

There are 4 window.

What you know about yourself and others dont
What you know about yourself and others know too
What you don't know about yourself and others know.
What you don't know about yourself and other don't know too.

Sakuraflower SG

this is so common..

Yunhaier SG

Johari Window... Smile

Cheers