My boy and I patched somewhere 3 weeks back and we had this
agreement.
He was to tell me when he was going out with his friends so as to
prevent unwanted arguments over long waits of smses which usually
lead to me being worried about his safety and sometimes, even
frustration. Things went on fine the first few days/weeks as we
spent our 'honeymoon' period together after being separated for a
month. But recently, the same shit happens again.
He would go out with his friends till late night without letting me
know. And I would usually assume that he's at home playing online
games or sleeping. The first time he did it, he told me he has
forgotten to tell me and apologised. I didnt kick up a fuss about
the whole matter because, well. I thought it really slipped off his
mind.
Just at the next day, he went out without telling me AGAIN. It
pissed me off again as its just directly the next day and its
unbelievable how he can forget things so easily. And moreover, I
felt like he didnt seem to care about me again.
We msged this afternoon, but till now he hasnt replied my sms. I am
suspecting he is out with his friends again without telling me. I
dont know how will I react when I receive his sms. I really dont
think I deserve such a treatment. It hurts me too, because it seems
to me that he has the mindset of, "Aiya, its okay if she's angry
lah. Just sweet talk her will do. She will SURELY forgive
me."
Is sending an sms just to inform me that difficult? I dont need him
to tell me about his every single movement, I just want to know
that he's not home.
Is it really that difficult? Guys?
