i think it's more like "oops, i did it again".
understand the person well 1st before making any confession. the
more u try without any preparation, the more u r going to hurt
urself in future.
r/s is not like ur academic studies. in academic studies is u study
hard correctly, u will get fruitful reward in getting good
grades.
but r/s is input != output. even the more u put in, u may not have
anything in return if the gal nvr appreciate u.