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queen0ftiara SG

I kept it to myself a long time n always asked myself.
Im trying to b a nice person,cause im quite mean person bak den.
My fren make a sacastic remark/sound when i reject doing smth mean or smth.
saying "whoa"
makes me abit angry n down
Being a nice person isnt such an easy job afterall.
I patched up with some of my frens, altho now we stil talk like usual lah. but im uncontented like can feel abit distant from dem. Cos im hanging out with another person, if i get too close to dem, they cfm wil tink dat i jus take using dem as occupying boredom. so i dun dare to talk too much to dem or hang out with dem much.
Don't know why people also hav this kind of tot. -.-

Im trying here. Then at the end of the day, i ask myself "omg, was i being nice today? did i do anything wrong today? did i scold my fren?!" Now im so afraid of losing my own frens or smth. hmm
I hate trying to be a nice person n i hate being a mean person.
-stress

ghimpheng SG

be yourself don't need to be nice or mean

cause nice or mean also got friends just that different type

be yourself is what is most important

de_middle SG

sometimes act act too much can go insane & later on blow up, u'll be worse off Neutral

Isis SG

Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh u don't own your friends. They are not a thing, u know? They have a mind of their own and if they want to leave you, you can't do anything about it.

Anyway, it is seems good that u are trying to improve on your flaws. However, at the end of the day you can't please everyone... so when you find yourself suffering by being too nice, then don't bring be loh.

gunner77 SG

just be urself
if u wanna be a nice person, ur temper must be not easily affected.
be cheerful

thebunny SG

I think it’s important to be urself yet not lose urself to ur devil’s side =S wat am I talking about…?

ghimpheng SG

be nice is strong encourage doh

Zarks SG

Be urself is the best. but also u must use wise word to talk back to them.. not like an animal to bite when u pissed off

MobyRun! SG

tut4nkh4m3n SG

seems to me your nice but not really nice. if you get what i mean, ha.

Nata|ie SG

Just be yourself. True friends love you for who you are, even if it means that you are different to them.

"It's not about being who everyone else wants you to be. It's about being yourself, and finding someone who loves every bit of it." <

Stay true to your heart.

selfobliged SG

most importantly just be yourself. At the same time, try to improve yourself.

Agenda SG

wait for poly where you hatch a new life. try to be sociable.

jojobeach SG

queen0ftiara,

Don't even try.

When people find out you are just "trying" they will know you are just pretentious and fake.

A pretentious person is worst than a mean person.

If your nature is mean, accept that it is part of your character, and go make friends with people who don't mind people like you.

Be true to yourself and others will be true to you.