suffering from bully

sLeEpWaLkErInG SG

Thread starter.. duh... Mad

<Precious> SG

Work on raising that low self-steem first which seems to be the root of the problems because confidence in standing up to the bully is the best way to handle the bully. Alas, where got confidence to do this because of the low self-esteem?

A large part of that low self-esteem could probably be caused by being over-weight. Fat people are especially susceptible to this problem. If so, go work it out physically. When you are physically fitter, you will feel much better about yourself too. Best part is that confidence comes as a package! Wink

fareez SG

hey yeah,this is the best advice so far..alright,i will say this to him right away..but if there is any more good advice,just tell me ya..thanx Very Happy

LordIcarus SG

he needs to fight back. seriously. or prolly just ignore em. they'll die down soon.

Fatum SG

if they are still his friends ... then he's either kong kam .... or he enjoys being bullied, no ? ... Rolling Eyes

life is very simple sometimes ....

hisoka SG

are they his friends or not his friends?

as mayi said lor can find other ways to get back at them. get them in trouble in school or with the law is an alternative.

Short Ninja SG

There are the main actors and the supporting actors.Bullies is afraid to be on the spotlight but want to be part of the show so they find people like your friend who dont mind being the star.If things do get bad just shout as loud as you can at the bullies,this should put them back on the spot.

absol SG

tt kind of bully...jus dao them and ignore them, remain silent...they can only hurl verbal abuses at you but will get kinda fustrated cuz u arent reacting the way they want. best is give them a smile/grin too like ure enjoying it. make them agitated at ur seemingly cocky behaviour and jus wait until they push or punch you or something, just anything physical and as long as you don't fight back, you've won. if u really want to make it serious go to the police after they go physical on u haha.

be confident about urself, dont be so affected by people. if they insult u about something u really cant take, go work on it. if they insult u on something u arent, heck care then, theres really nothing to put to the heart.

queen0ftiara SG

Tell DM lorh. alot of people scared DM one. For my school lah.
Ask ur fren to tel it to the most fierce one in school can alr.
U ask ur fren. Kenna bully one time, complain one time.
complain non-stop they wil take action. Very Happy Den dey gt suspended,detention. etc etc.

Or

Go conselling.

BeautifulBetty SG

Kena bully and still call those numbskulls as friends? Then he himself deserves it because he is so hadap for 'friendships' or social contacts that he took it lying down.

Somebody did say something about being getting bullied was because the victim ask for it. Because they wanted to be accepted socially so badly that they let people walk all over them and still call these people friends. Weirdos Rolling Eyes

fareez SG

life is just like that..some day yur up,the next yur down..one day hes your fren, the next day hes your enemy..human being r so hypocrite..cats are better..

fareez SG

did u guys see the thread where the ang moh bully the poor uncle? so kesian..life is just like that..the strong will always bully the weak..the strong will survive,n the weak will perish in the end.. Mad Crying or Very sad

Wu Tang Clanionaire SG

haha.why not big show or 50 cent???dis 2 macho are much huger than triple "H" Laughing

BadzMaro SG

Well.. thats just how it works.

We can protect the weak and stupid too.. and allow them to survive and procreate more .. to have MORE stupid and weak people. Razz The future will see .. a dumbing down. And when we think we can use science to improve these defects , we will be instead focusing more in hair loss.. and prolonging erections.

Laughing

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