To accept this girl or not?

last SG · 2007-10-25T23:28:26+00:00

If it bothers you...it already shows you have doubt... Accept her for who she is if you really love her... Somethings are the past....if you feel that it bo...

TrixCereals SG

What most important is her present state.

It's good that she's being honest.

Darkness_hacker99 SG

You know how much courage she needed to tell you this? Oh C'mon, can you give her a little support?

magical_wen SG

ya...i understand..
but..
see, i like this girl.
but i scared she will be jus playing with me.
and all her stead before lasted onli for weeks
Crying or Very sad

dbowie SG

i am with you on this
if some girl i am ready with suddenly tells me this i will definitely accept her.. she is being honest with me and that means she is serious ..
well, at least i wun wanna be deluded until the day i fck her and then i realized she's not a virgin.

LOL @ SGF KIA SG

LOLOLOL why do you people sound so narrow-minded here. BUAY TAHAN MAN.

If you mother had two different sex partners in her life, would you want to disown her? As long as the girl has a correct mindset and that's all it matters. LOLOLOL @ YOU ALL.

gigabyte14 SG

Rolling Eyes

dbowie SG

has she told her previous stead something like this too ? no ? that means her previous stead is just flings la. i mean if u like her why not go for it.

magical_wen SG

SHe's 16, btw...
all was done in few weeks

Agenda SG

i just wanna say

huat the fug

spadeTwo SG

you wan fark around thats your problem

we all have different values of life. Rolling Eyes

and yes she needed alot courage to tell you this,
and yes, by telling you this, she most probably favor you, that im sure you got a chance.
but a girl who doesn't treasure her very own virginity is someone i would say no-no to. Fling can, serious/future-wife NO.

dbowie SG

if u be her bf, u can just dun fck her wad. and this wun lead to more case of her having s3x lor.

magical_wen SG

Its not whether i wan to f her anot.
its the acceptance of this 'type' of person..
she said she loves me.
im sure she had said this to all previous 9 of them.
so wad am i supposed to do

BenBenDeZhu SG

give it a try la, without the sex

dbowie SG

9
why not u confirm ur doubts with her.
i mean she really loves u she will be honest with it
if not u can just treat her as a fling lor.
if she is honest with u the qns on " have u told the previous 9 of them u had sex ? " den i guess its perfectly fine.
if u are in her shoes what will u think oso ?

spadeTwo SG

you wana elaborate ? Rolling Eyes

magical_wen SG

hmm...she did it with the 7th to 9th..
which is jus a few months ago..
its jus dat i dun wan a relationship knowing it wont last long,
or flinging.
i like her.
wan to be with her,
but knowing all these,
i si bei sian lar..
and leaving her with this reason (her past)
oso like not veri good...
as wad was done were all in the past.. Rolling Eyes

spadeTwo SG

please lah, ALOT of girls also damn honest with me about their past sex life, and i must STRESS ALOT, so what does that mean ?
they are all interested in me ? Rolling Eyes
cuz if thts the case, i will feel very flattered. Mr. Green

Sakuraflower SG

if u like the girl , then accept it...

but your opinion of her has change without u realise it..

can u accept her a not that she is not a virgin.

or after hearing it, u may not treat her so serious already.

but sixteen is very young...

dbowie SG

if u dun take the initiative to ask her and confirm ur doubts, how are u so sure that ur r/s will be lasting ?
loving a person is not so easy.
from ur description it seems like she have flings ..
why not u just ask her will it be a long lasting r/s.
and how long have u known each other ?
are yours and her relationship now strong ?
u give a shot first.
why not try interacting with her and den post ur verdict.

spadeTwo SG

you dunno the society now
all very open
i know of a 13 yer old girl whom out of curiosity, asked a classmate to have sex with her. Rolling Eyes
and dont ask me how i know, i just know.

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