boka SG sorry but i expect humans to follow a line of command. When they accept to enter any relationship or risky situiation,it states that they abide to any unforseen circumstance and therefore should never whine.
jojobeach SG Sure, if you so staunchly believes in this. Then you can do it. Don't expect everyone else to follow your idea though.
FocusPoint SG After following this 'saga' for so many days did anyone realize that the TS has only posted once in this post and that was just the beginning? Where thereafter TS seemed to have gone silent when forumners ask her what was the cause or the root of her slapping of the boyfriend. To me TS has something to hide and refuse to divulge any further because she must be in the wrong too or else why won't she come clean? And here we are as usual, the more active and vocal lot started a debate without really knowing the full story of TS's agony. From what I can see some of the forumners here still have lingering shadow of their past abuses and then every now and then exhibit their so-called righteousness by advocating others to use violence against violence! Self defense will only come in when one is being physically abuse. No one is allowed to hit another no matter what the other party said to you. The moment you physically lay a finger on someone you are already in the wrong!