Hi Protollium,
I hope the KY is not the type of gel I am aware of... anyway jokes
aside, seems like you are really confused and I guess you are
attracted to girls who are pretty much the sociable type.
Actually, before you can immerse yourself in a relationship,
consider if you can handle her being nice and friendly as before
with other guys. If not, you might as well stop now. And by the
way, I am getting the idea that you have never gone out with her
before and basically chat on MSN??? duh...
If you really want to talk to her and discuss about you, her,
everything, movies and cinemas are the lousiest place you can go.
Why? How can you even talk to her in a cinema? In my humblest
opinion, wine or beer garden will be nice... you know, a bit of
alcohol can do wonders in opening up the heart to say what's not
meant to be said. Of course, that could backfire on you as
well.
And if you are worried about the "other guys" thing, a bit of
observation while you are drinking with her can often pin down the
type of guys she is eyeing at.
Do not cloud your mind by her "MSN" charm, it may not be the
truth.