Cheating Girlfriend

last SG · 2007-10-10T17:57:07+00:00

Break up with her la… She betrayed you.

Detached SG

I'd say confront her.

If you love her and she repents, forgive her.

If you love her and she doesn't repent, let her go.

If she repents and you forgive her, bear no grudges.

If she doesn't repent and you let her go, don't end up a bitter person.

All in all, be it this or that - it's a difficult time, take your time to recover.

FireToad SG

She is someone so close and dear to you and yet she is doing all those evil acts?

how can you tolerate that?

Confront her! make her life mserable! SHame her!

Pitot SG

I feel for you.

But hey. Be a man.

EarlNeo SG

I have a feeling that you are a ger.... coz normally only them are that scary... that is why i never offend a ger/lady whenever I can.

jojobeach SG

andrewtvp,

Since you are such a forgiving guy.

Surely you wouldn't mind raising a kid as your own.
An innocent kid who belongs to another man and mothered by your gf/wife.

How many times do you want to put that green hat on ?

Perhaps you can also parade around in that green hat while happily hugging your gf/wife while rejoicing your fortunate circumstances, telling all your friends and relatives how much you really cannot live without her ?

Dead_Man_Inc SG

Revenge is sweet, but, why drag along the kids and suffer with him?

jojobeach SG

Yes. And also risk getting a retort back when the mother replies with

" Yah, and he is also not your biological father."

ilovethesun SG

Hi Doko,

I do have great appreciation for your posts and suggestions and I think you give good and mature interpretation. But this time I do not agree with you. Privacy intrusion is shld NOT be supported,n esp just bcoz u FEEL something is nt right!!

So,TS confessed he did that , i hope he knows its not right! but I admired his ability to keep it inside his heart n kept mum about it . I admire TS's maturity in this issue and tryin to handle it in a less confrontational way.

I believe it is very hard for you right now, coz that is really quite Over, but give yourself n her sometime to think if it is suitable to carry on. No point pushing.
I am sure she isnt feeling too well too...

Ask urself if you can really forgive her for her mistake. That is most important.

digicharat SG

you said she had a history of lying and is still lying now.
you and she had promised each other to a monogamous relationship and she broke that promise.
you said you cant believe her words anymore.

she is lying to you, she had betrayed you and you cant trust her anymore.
even if you are able to forgive what she did, you will still be suspicious of whatever she do in the future. do you want to live like this and with such kind of woman like her?

seriously, why are you even considering salvaging such a relationship?
there is nothing worth saving this relationship for. love? love is dead between the two of you when she lied and betrayed you continuously and when you had your distrust in her.

side note... if you plan to take up the earlier suggestion of screwing that woman as much as possible before breaking up, remember to wear condom.
who knows that guy is also screwing around with other girls and has aids. Laughing

Cool-gal SG

oh come on, leave her for goodness sake.
she can sleep with tat office guy, she can oso sleep with the toilet man.
im sure she will cheat again.
endure this break up pain for now or endure this stressful, disheartening pain for as long as u want.
im sure she will break up with u after she finds her bastard other half.
bitch always goes well with bastard.

ya, b4 u break up,
fark her like ter is no tmr afterwhich u may give her a tight slap!

turdkenstien SG

Dude,

I don't normally comment on these kind of issues but, having gone through similar experiences myself, my only advise to you is, cut losses and get out of the r/s. Its not going to do any good to any of you if you hold on.

Guardx SG

Actually I do not see the point of even advising the TS.

He knows his gf is sleeping around but he just simplily refuse to let go.
For love?

RSKeisuke SG

go ahead and patch up with her man!

2 months later she say she's pregnant, you are gonna be a father!... be only she knows it's not your child...

dokono SG

Hi ilovethesun

I know a lot of people will complain that this is an intrusion of privacy but I stand by my comment.

Im not saying you should always spy on your partner but when you can tell things are not right, I think you can go ahead and do it.

I support them 100%.

After all, who wants a cheating girlfriend/boyfriend right ? The first thing I would do is get rid of them. Sorry it sounds harsh but yeah, that's how it works.

Hey, they had sex behind his back remember?

doko

Sagara SG

Hey TS, look at yourself in the mirror...

Are you still a guy ? Where's your pride ?

Being kind doesn't pay. She'll just keep cheating on you.

jojobeach SG

Yes doko, I second your stand.

That's what Private Investigators are for.

dokono SG

Exactly. If you let her know you can take her back, she knows she can still cheat behind your back.

You allowed her after all. She's doesn't respect you at all. This is a dysfunctional relationship to begin with.

Her good friend huh?
What a joke! Just a good sex friend right?

doko

SpecOps87 SG

You know what mate…be happy that u found out now. Cuz bf/gf can break up…who also dun owe who anything. Imagine u sign-on with her, wanna break-bond. She gets 1/2 of ur everything man…and also monthly you must pay her allowance. She can just stay home, enjoy relac and open leg for other guys. Imagine that…how you feel?

gforce199 SG

brother...
if i were u,
i would hint her that i know and maybe i would download all mail to a thumbdrive and maybe if she do not want to stop, i would forward her mail to her and that it...
and i would do more things that will make her regret...

and most importantly i would hook on her friend and treat her friend more better and let her know..

Sagara SG

great move Laughing

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