ironically, my gf doesnt want me to work 
anyway, wad i think is dat, studies first! i mean, a student doesnt
have to work while he or she is studying.
after schooling, who doesnt want to work? earning more money to
support her? den wad is her education for? for fun is it? last time
olden days when women has no education, den it is the men's
repsonsibility to support her, nowadays when female seek equality
with male, den i tink it is ridiculous.
you will nt be injured FOREVER wont you? your current situation
will not affect your FUTURE if you n her love each other. if u hav
the confidence, why let it bother you? earning less money den her
does not mean u didnt earn money leh. i hate pple with this
perspective: earn less money = lousy. wah lan eh, less money not
equal no money lo. who noes if u will perform excellently in your
job and get a big fat bonus or promotion in job?
how old are you? do u hav NS to serve yet? if she come out work
sure much more den ur NS "pay" (or u call it, allowance) one wad,
if next time like dat den how????
for now, why save so hard when u go out with her? go out doesnt
mean need to spend a lot. when i hav no money, i also go out with
my gf, or my gf pay for me sometimes. vice versa, when i hav money,
i also pay for my gf and stuff like dat, or each of us pay our own
expense.
money shldnt be a problem at THIS stage.
