I tot I do not have to post here again, but just let me whine a
bit. Since Monday, my wife has threatened divorce once and
presented the idea of divorce twice liao.
Here's the story. We are getting our own house. Woohoo! Then my Mum
came into the picture. Boo! Initially, she had agreed to let both
of us stay apart from them. But as the date draws near for us to
move into our new house, Mum started nagging to sell her house and
stay with us.
My stand is this from day 1; I do not want to stay with my folks. I
have told my Mum in the face that I want to live separately from
them. Not that unfilial or something, I love my parents, but I have
personal reasons. My wife knows I'm with her, but she's overcomed
by stress and fear that my mum may actually gets what she wants. I
reassured her MANY MANY times that I won't let it happen. But don't
know what she thinking, she began to pick a fight with me, accusing
me of being Mummy's boy and say my mum betrayed her trust...bla bla
bla(the rest is noise).
I HATE to be caught in the middle and it actually happens now. I
love my wife, but perhaps not enough patience to counsel her. Hey,
only God has infinite patience, I am only human. So the thing is
this, over the years until now, she has successfully sold the idea
of divorce into me. I do not want to fight it anymore. I already
said yes once, but somehow we manage to make up. I even dreamt that
I said yes in a dream and we spilt.
So now, it's only a matter of time. I am gonna say yes and make it
real in one of our future quarrels. I can put up with her
micro-managing my life and other stuff, but I do not like threats.
I know in some way, I may have asked for it and partly my fault
too. My mind is struggling to make sense of it all and salvage the
whole thing, but I feel hopeless. Also, the temptation of absolute
freedom is irresistible. In the end, I would probably grant her
wish, and have the whole house to myself. No, I won't invite my
folks to live with me. Feels like a cool thing afterall hoh?
Thank you for listening.
