Jealousy is part of our human existence emotion, a natural
emotion all of us hv in our mind, it is an intergrated part of our
life, there are two forms of resultant jealousy formation. The good
and bad jealousy.
1. Good jealousy resulted in motivation, competitiveness and also
in love relationship. eg. because i am jealous about your richness,
i make sure i get richer than you, so i must motivate myself to do
well to challenge you. In sport, i am jealous that you run faster
than me and get all the support, i make sure I will train and work
hard to beat you the next time round. In Love, I am jealous to see
you with another woman, why? because i love you.
2. Bad jealousy resulted in bad thought of revenge, sabotage and
even kill, it bring about a person mental illness in seeing other
people good, it harboured the thought of destroy him or her, and
when translated into action, it can be very detrimental to
relationship such as frens, relatives, lovers or even life. As the
saying goes, Even look can kill.
So, instead of jealous about a person, we should try to envy
him/her and try to emulate it or even better than him/her. But
remember that in every envying, there seat in the corner of an
unstable mind, a jealous envying.
