single parents

nightsky87 SG

When you turn 18 next april then decide. You still have a long way to go in terms of your TP tests, be it 2B or 3. Do you really need a car or a bike that badly? Correct me if i'm wrong, you stated that your salary is approx 600 per month. Will taking public transport be more economically viable for that salary?

cApitaland SG

Nah. I can survive on public transport.

I very immature I understand. Crying or Very sad I just have to take it in my stride and bite the bullet.

Hello Kitty SG

dun liddat.

ur mummy oso beri poor ting.

Isis SG

It is not easy for a women to run the household... really.... and to bring you up, support ur siblings and you through education. Most parents could naturally want the best for their children and could also feel frustrated when they are unable to give what their children desire. Think in her shoes. I believe she isn't having a easy time to handle it.

You probably need time to adjust to a new lifestyle due to the emerging situation.

Without a bike, u can still be happy, don't forget to appreciate the things that you have had now. You can still own a bike in the future when your financial allows but not now. Wink

Isis SG

gigabyte14 SG

wait...

what? Shocked

gigabyte14 SG

easy la brudder

just save the bike for later

and go learn driving now.

jojobeach SG

Capitaland,

If you insist on getting a personal transportation.
Your mom would PREFER that you get a car instead of bike.
Because car is safer than bike.

BUT, if you really die die (no pun intended) must get a bike.
Then my suggestion to you.

Get yourself a good term life insurance policy, make sure it also covers disability.
So that, if any thing happens... your mom and what ever liabilities will be covered.

Remember, if anything happens to you, AKA broken limps, your income ability will be ZERO. And your mom will have to take care of you AND earn a living, AND be the man of the house, AND be the mom to your other siblings.

So, do your family a favor.

cApitaland SG

she is slowly accepting the idea of me getting a bike. but now i not sure if i wan the bike anymore anot.

see first la. after divorce case finish liao then she cool down abit and stop barking at me for small things.

jojobeach SG

Yes, you are correct.

Now is not the time to make your mom worry.

Divorce procedure is a very stressful time.

Emotionally, your mom is very fragile right now.
And she will need all the support from her love ones.

It will take some time for everyone including herself to settle into a life without your delinquent father.

Give her some time.

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