We've been married for 2 years and things got a lot worst.
Before we married, he paid a lot of attention to me but recently he
rather focus on sports than his sexy wife.
All this problem started in the beginning of the year when his
friends invited him to watch a football match at mamak stall. Since
then, he went out almost every night to join his friends play
indoor football (futsal?) and I don't mind with that because it's
good to attached with some sports.
Last 3 months, he started to watch wrestling and bought a lot of
DVDs. He became less caring towards me. Example, when I broke my
glass in the kitchen, he just don't even bother to take his butt up
and to see what happening. He just stick his eyes to the wrestling
program.
Then last month, he bought a lot of posters (football, wrestling
and basketball) and football bedsheets to decorate our room. He
suggested that we should take down our wedding picture on the wall
and replace it with a footballer named (Alex Ferguson?). He said
it's a very inspirational poster and he want to frame it. We argued
about that and at last I gave up for the sake of his
happiness.
And what really upset a lot is during our anniversary recently, i
bought him a nice watch and he give me a Nike football shoe as a
gift. He said the shoe is pretty therefore he bought for me. Then,
previous week is my birthday and his present for me is a DVD of
wrestling. He said the DVD is great and I should watch it whenever
I'm free.
Yesterday, I was preparing dinner while he read his sports
magazine. I called his to take his dinner and he said dont disturb
him. And out of my mouth I said "Eat magazines can already, no need
to eat dinner!". He was very angry and shouted "You dont talk to me
like that, I'm the game and king of kings in this house. If you
keep talking a lot, I'll give you a shut the f**k up!". Then he
grunted something like "Humaka?". I cried and ran into the room and
we didnt talk since then.
Dear members, what should I do to save this marriage? I really love
him a lot but recently he changed a lot suddenly and I had a really
hard time to be with him.
I dont know what to do....
Thanks for reading such a long whining story of mine and i
apologize for my weak grammars.
Yours sincerely,
ShyShyCat
