Loving a person without reason.. How truth is it?

CannyOng SG

Hi.. I often heard many people say that,they love their opposite sex partner without a reason.

It might be love at first sight...

It might be solely be feeling...

Whatever... Do u believe u need no reason to love a person and base just on purely feeling?

I have a girl friend, she got a bf recently and I know my friend got foul temper and childish. As I predicted,her bf cannot handle and tahan her. He is trouble and he suddenly call me up to pour out his feeling. He told me he loves my friend just becos he loves her and no reason and based purely on feeling(so call love at first sight). He claim only such love is the ultimate lvl of love. Love a person with any bias,no factor and unconditional love...

Just like my friend case,her foul temper will pissed off a lof of pontential lover. I am feeling that guy is suffering cos of his intuition of loving a person without reason.

I don't believe love a person base on feeling...

What is yr view?

alfagal SG

tis is something i’ve always been puzzled about too..

Nadare SG

love is blind... Shocked Shocked

CannyOng SG

Can I say they take back their words after kenna deep deep(hurt)? Mr. Green

U surely must love a person based on something...

It can be appearance,a kind soul,an adorable and gentle lady..

But can't be without a reason,right???

Cool-gal SG

its true..
Embarassed

caleb_chiang SG

Rolling Eyes

Hmm... it is normal to "love" the person you fuck...

yiha093 SG

maye u juz feel attached to that person? Surprised

Darkness_hacker99 SG

Infatuation

yiha093 SG

lol u haven slp Laughing

BrUtUs SG

chemistry ba…

dokono SG

Loving a person without reason? No offense, I would say your guy friend has been brainwashed into believing into such a thing? It's just our minds playing tricks on us.

Seriously, the way your friend behave, their relationship is not going to last. I think you also know right? I think you can't force him to give up the relationship but to me, this relationship won't work in the long run because of the girl's attitude.

doko

MooKu SG

What kind of feeling? A feeling of need resulting from loneliness?

jojobeach SG

Loving a person without reason ?

That's lust.

Zarks SG

hm... for a guy to say bout love so divine.. is really funny... but sometimes thats love.. when u really love some1, no matter how bad the lover is, u still have some strong feeling.. This cant be explained anyway cuz it might be pure feeling. But somehow many ppl confused bout pure feeling and infatuation.. most of the time its infatuation,, well, u know.. when the guy or gal is very pretty with perfect body.. sometimes this kind of infatuation can be confused as love...

I think ppl fall in love easier with pretty face than those with ugly face...

TO me, if a person can fall in love with an ugly face but a good heart, i think thats pure love... ask anyone if they might like or love a person who is ugly or fat... 99% will say NO.

My female friend is the same too, Terrible attitude, childish thinking, and obviously a good liar, i just dun understand why is it her bf love her so much. Yea she is pretty and perfect body, i dont know if the guy just love her appearance or really pure love.... This confused me as well..

Zarks SG

I'll add another one..

Love without a reason can be true..

This is very normal but...

It takes 2 side, male and female to take their own effort to maintain their relationship instead of just pure love

To me, when u be with lover, you can think that you like your lover without a reason.. but pure love only comes from understanding , toleration and trust..

Too sad, your female friend is another gal who takes things for granted...Some gals are immature and too childish to understand pure love, they think if they have feeling, then its pure love.. which is totally wrong..
I pity that guy, i think he might really love that gal but that gal doesnt seem to appreciate him.. I dont think they can last long..

To me , i wouldnt find a gal who dont understand what is love all about..nowadays , gals are too chilidish to understand this love thing and alwasy take things for granted

de_middle SG

lust = loving the person's body w/o any emotional feelings.

ispyyy SG

There is always a reason behind loving a person...

tat is "I LOVE U"

jojobeach SG

Loving the person's body = emotional feelings emanating from down there.....

Therefore, do not need a reason.

january SG

the word love has been distorted in its meaning already.

its true. becaues sometimes we forget why we love the person in the first place. hence, we say that love has no reason sometimes. thus, love=momentum

ispyyy SG

I m Laughing

topic "loving a person without reason" become topic "loving the person's body without reason" liao...