When a student asks for advice during the "exam" period or
during his school life in general, why do so many people
immediately tell the student to "concentrate on studies....next
time then think of love-love"...
I've been through school...and had to battle with my emotions
during this period too...especially since thats the period of your
life when you're gonna be thrown left-right center by your
fluctuating hormonal levels.
Trying to find a balance in this would probably be the best
solution.
Thread starter...this girl that you like....she is in the same
class...is going to be going throught the same examinations as
you...yes?
And you're afraid that she will find out because you feel she
doesn't know you well enough?
If so...
1) Get out from that hole you've begun to dig for yourself....if
you like her, tell her....but when you tell her, also include that
while you would like to get to know her better, you would prefer it
if you both could first concentrate on the coming exams. But let
her know that your intentions are there....
2)Now that she knows your intention, tell her that you would like
to study WITH her for the upcoming exams...tell her that you want
to make sure that both of you do well...and show her that exactly
that by taking responsibility in making sure that the "study time"
is really for studies..and not just to woo her.
3)If she turns down your offer for 1) or 2) then pour your emotions
into you studies....if you can show her that you can do well in
your exams even despite her heartwrenching reply to you, you might
just stand a chance...nothing sayz more about a man than how he
overcomes adversity
