oops.. sorry i was referring to Yunhair's post. Forgot to quote.
Sometimes after reading few days i tend to lose track. And instead
of quote.. i just reply.
Anyways..
Different ppl different habits due to the environment and
friends.
Seriously.. alot of you thinks that drinking , clubbing , snooker ,
gambling , street racing.are bad habits. I mean o.k.. fair enough ,
they are not exactly very good habits. But i dont think that they
are that bad a habit. Unless u are talking about addiction to it.
Small gamble , small drinks.. should be acceptable right ?
anyways... you women are hard to understand. Maybe we men are as
hard to understand as to why we do what we do. Sometimes its not so
simple , i admit.. any form of addiction is bad. But until it is
proven that they are addicted to it , addicted as in... will DIE..
or go on a fit because of not getting any... then maybe should talk
it out. And compromising will always work. Guys will say thier
fellow brothers getting pusssy whipped.. but in the end we all
understand. At least he came out to have a drink with us.. even if
it means he needs to go home early too. once in a while , if some
occasion , just let him out.. or be with him till late.
It just depends on the crowd and people he is with. Supportive of
him and the decision or not they like you as a gf to him. And as a
gf , you should get to know his close brothers. Because they are
the ones that influence him. N when u guys quarrel.. know that
these guys are the ones he will be b|tching to and downing his
sorrows in beer with. Unless his brothers are like real fuked up
ppl .. if he is blind to not see.. well.. just let him be. he will
get into some deep sh|t and come crawling back telling u, you are
right.
understanding of each other and the people around them is
important. with that , you can get a better understanding and work
your way from there to solve those little little issues. in the end
, if one side dont compromise , it just wont work. If he is just
being a son of a b|tch.. and an @ss and jerk.. just dump his @ss. I
am sure he has those things u like about him.. or else you wont be
with him in the first place. but if it starts to turn ugly... all
those things u like about him all gone.. then.. drop him.
