what can i say, looks are important in the world today. The
impact of this extends beyond chasing girls.
It is insidious and pervasive, simply because it's human nature
that people want to associate themselves with other good looking
people. Conversely people tend to be less kind to others who are
not good looking. Everyone
does it, most dont realise it. And everyone will experience some
form of discrimination in their lifetimes.
Know this: people may not like you because of how you look, but
they can't help it! It's not really their fault, cos humans are
programmed as such. They don't even realise that they're
discriminating against you.
The problem isn't you, it's not really other people as well. It's
just cos humans are designed to be lan jiao lang.
What's the solution to this fcuked up situation? You can't change
the world, so you have to change yourself. It's all about your
expectations.
There is room enough for everyone on this earth. And where there's
a will, there will be a way.
People will try to limit you and stumble you, but you, at all
times, possess the power to help yourself. It's all in the mind.
Discipline your mind and your emotions.
Focus on your strengths, develop them. Know that you are talented
and disciplined enough to continuously improve yourself. Celebrate
all victories at work, and in life.
Never allow yourself to spiral into despair, in which case you
cause hurt only yourself and the people who love you no matter how
to look. It's not worth it.
Surround yourself with people who love you, and care for you
regardless of how you look. Return love and support to these
people. They should be the foundations of your life.
Before even thinking about getting a girlfriend, the more important
task is to fix yourself first. Fix your 'insides', your heart and
your mind.
We are all born with different amount of, as i like to call it,
'resources'. Make full use of what you have, instead of lamenting
about what you don't have. At the very least, live a life without
regret knowing that you have tried your best. It will be alot more
satisfying that living a life full of self doubt and self
pity..
You are actually not as helpless as you think, and not alone in
facing this sort of thing. So take heart in that. It's not as bad
as you think it is.
