I really like him.what should I do?

last SG · 2007-09-25T15:22:08+00:00

Life, then, during your grandad's time... was simpler/less stressful.

ozzy_gurl SG

Ok....there is this guy who lives in singapore,who likes me a lot and has asked me to get to know him and his family and one day settle down. I am planning to move to singapore to live and work next year....so there is no distance issues. However, he is younger than me..he is 19. I'm 21. I just don't know if he is really ready to settle down like he says he wants to. What should I do?
I like him a lot, and I would love to be with him, but I don't want him doing anything he's not ready for.

FBI SG

too young to talk abt that..

i mean that guy

ozzy_gurl SG

Thats what I think FBI…but he is very mature for his age. But I still worry.

ndmmxiaomayi SG

I think get to know him first… the rest can be discussed at a later stage.

Mospeada SG

dun rush into relationship yet...be friend for the time being...

i guess the guy will still have to go for NS, then study...

FBI SG

yeah like wat ant said, get to know him first..

and does he have the financial ability? i doubt it

ozzy_gurl SG

he has just under a year left on his ns…..i don’t know about the financila ability,and to be honest,I don’t care…..money isn’t important to me, I like to work to support myself.

FBI SG

yeah but if u wanna settle down the guy must have some money right

ozzy_gurl SG

yeah but i believe that both the husband and wife should work to support the family,its what we do here in australia. a lot of times, the wife only works and the husband doesn’t. its up to the couple. i dont like things to be handed to me, i like to work for what i have.

M©+square SG

Where one is hasty, they will face difficult decisions and destinations.

ozzy_gurl SG

don’t get me wrong, I don’t want to rush into a relationship. but maybe we should be friends until he’s a bit older and more ready for life?

angel7030 SG

Yo, let take the easy way out, Love first, talk later.

de_middle SG

correct Very Happy

AndrewPKYap SG

Forget it.... it takes two to make it work and just because you really really like him, does not mean that it will work.

stellazio SG

Noo, you guys can go into a relationship, just not the settling down part yet.

hisoka SG

you guys can go into a relationshipw ithout settling down first. try it out and if all is fun and nice, then give thoughts to settling which cna be done later.

but truth to say at age of 19 i'm not exactly convinced the relationship will be that long lasting anyway Laughing

Zarks SG

lol 19 talking bout settling down.. sorry TS not meant to disrespect, do you really think 19 wud really think it so seriously ?

Talks are always sweet.. but i just think its too early for both of you to talk bout this.. just have fun and steady for the nex 5 years then see how

gigabyte14 SG

seen each other on the flesh already?

it might all change in the end, but go for it.

ozzy_gurl SG

i spent 7 weeks working with him every day last year.....we know each other.
i told him i want to take time to see how things work out.

Zarks SG

MOve slow and see the nature’s flow la… at the time being, just have fun with him .. dont have to think bout marriage or anything yet..