why? is it a normal/abnormal of his attitude?

last SG · 2007-09-21T15:03:45+00:00

Oh, you're saying like im very innocent cute guy

woho SG

i am not sure about this...
i called a guy and he picked up. happily i ask him to guess why i call him... his reply was "why you called, why you called leh??"
so i replied cause i like to call you mah... he replied you want to call me then call lor... (he always sounds like i can call him anytime) and ask me where am i...
after a few exchange of words, i found out that he was outside(talking with his fren) so i said... oh you busy? then bye bye lor... he replied "bye BYe"
a bit reluctant, i said really?? he ask me to sms him. so i said dont want, and asked him what time i can call him back. he said 30 min later...
40 min later, i called back twice, he cut my phone. so i msg him to ask if i can sms him. NO REPLY. 15 min i called back once, no1 picks up. so i sms him saying i have sth that needs his help if he can. its really impprtant to me. 10 mins plus plus later den he reply me wat thing...

Anyway, that thing is really v impt

FireIce SG

i think u have successfully interrupted and irritated him

Darkness_hacker99 SG

Neutral Your friend really having attitude problem leh. Confused

beavan SG

what’s the issue? are you calling him just to chat? get him to call u back

allentyb SG

it is a normal reply, and even if someone was to call me, or even sms me, it really depends on what sort of message it is, i probably will message back a few days later or never even reply at all

allentyb SG

if you have something to important, then just message him, your problem and ask him to help out, don’t beat around the bush

icyboiz SG

got to know a girl online, and she’s is like u like that,den i think ok den tok to her, den i tired i sae i wan go slp she sae NO , i was like WTF ?! then from that time onwards i started ignoring.and very obvious i ignoring her she still can keep call n sms den i felt alittle irritated. so i often ignore her in msn n calls, in the end she stop calling . must know limit de mah.

woho SG

i only call once per week or 2 weeks once.. v often? i din even sms. still v often/? all conv not more than 30 min

dumbdumb! SG

both of you are equally bo liao...

u call him for fun for what?? Confused

Jezmeister SG

maybe you just caught him at a bad time... although i won't defend him, he shouldn't ignore you like that...

ShrodingersCat SG

i cannot stand it if people call me and don't come to the point, or ask me to guess who they are la this type of thing. I find it very irritating cos usually I am doing something.

So if you need help, come to the point.

if he cut off your phone, obviously not convenient to answer. if he ask you if you can sms him, obviously he is not able to talk to you on the phone.

I will get lagi more irritated if I am in an inconvenient situation, already tell that person, that person insist on keeping on the line or KEEPS ON CALLING AND CALLING. Actually ur friend very good already. I'd switch off my phone.

If u like this guy and trying to get to know him more by chatting with him on the phone, I suggest you learn to respect it when he is not free first.

de_middle SG

Confused

woho SG

i did apologise and said i didnt mean it… and thanks him for his help

Zarks SG

TS, first , you should state the guy is your bf, crush, best friend or only normal friend. So we can have better understanding bout your situation

But No offence,

I think that guy doesnt give a shyt to you...

What is a man to tell a gal to call them and sms them but he doesnt do it (TS never stated this right?)

Seriously, i think he's just being friendly and just love attention.. but not to the extend of liking you..

i guess he somehow knows you like him and enjoy this attention but i think he's tired of these or mayb he realised he doesnt want to give u the wrong perception that he likes you too

euc SG

stop pestering him eh

Zarks SG

i personally dun like it much when i call a person, they say why u call ar... damn wan give them one big roundhouse kick lol

theSquelch SG

want to act deh with a guy also must find right timing
and most importantly - the right method
obviously your method is not attractive to him
too bad!

angel7030 SG

Oh yes, too childish and amateurish. Wake up yr idea ya, you will never hook a bf with such method.

Cool-gal SG

seriously, i feel tat its normal for his attitude towards u.

1st. u started out a bo liao conversation. i called a guy and he picked up. happily i ask him to guess why i call him... his reply was "why you called, why you called leh??"
2nd. u beat ard the bush.
3rd. he is with his frenz.
4th. u flood him with calls n sms.[/i]

boka SG

I like him,don't really like gals calling us up and hoping for us to give them any attention.
U have been listed on our agenda as "insignificant"