why? is it a normal/abnormal of his attitude?

last SG · 2007-09-21T15:03:45+00:00

Oh, you're saying like im very innocent cute guy

woho SG

he is just my friend. all my guys n gals friend dont treat me like this...
anyway, i only call once per week or 2 weeks once.. v often? i din even sms until that time. still v often/? all conv short and sweet. i just dont understand why he suddenly behave like this
I DIN FLOOD HIM WITH CALLS OR SMSes.. PLS get it right

Zarks SG

True , true...

Zarks SG

true , true...

Straight to the point .. dont beat bush

Zarks SG

u lucky got many gals call u Shocked Shocked

Zarks SG

Hm... lets make spme experiment

Lets say im the man you alwasy call ha..

Hm.. of course i would like it if my friend calls me up

and yea. i wont mind my friend to alwasy call me up.

BUT....

i dont like it when my friend call me up just to talk nonsense over the phone especially when im busy or with my friend doing something and not avaiable to even talk.

Teach u la ,dear

U can call but control your behaviour a bit.. Dont start by let him guess why you call him.. Guys dun like to guess.. Remembe rthat..

Start call him then just say things like Hey, How are you doin there? What r u doin.. Hows your day? keep it short enough

If hes busy with his friend .. just say: Alrite, i shall not disturb u with your friends la.. have fun and take care.. Yea.. it may sound simple,, but if u talk like that, he will even respect you more for being understanding..

We, guys dont really like gals to act cute or to get attention, what we guys want is an understanding gal, not a gal who want ppl to give attention to them.

If you got something really important, just leave a message,

Message is actually the only way to let the person whom doesnt wan to talk to you read it.. YOu can simply say, hey, i got important thing to ask you which is bla bla.. Would you mind to have some free time to help me out? If you dont, its alrite. Hv a nice day..

Simple and understanding .. enough lor.. don act cute in the phone enough liou.. guys like understanding gal more than a cute gal.

I personally irritated when gal call me then say nonsense.. even in msn.. they say funny things and keep irritating me..

Be simple and straight to the point.. no need say " i like to chat with u ma:... Everytime i hear it ,i myself will show these ---> Confused

Zarks SG

Flirting guys or gals very fun one..

U need to do experiment how they would response to you.. then u will see the pattern that all guys like or not ma..

haiya..

cloud210 SG

my gf always call me everyday, den the first word is either "hai" or "sian". I haven't say hello, listen only i alreadi dun feel like talking le. den everyday like that, see her calls is like see ghost so i dun wan to answer already + i always keep myself busy like i play games or go out(since she dun haf so much freedom).

den months past, everyday or every 2days spam call and sms ask me pick up and den i pick up the same old stuffs again. Den she feel lonely liaos throw tantrum and attitude at me through sms, if i dun reply she will like wan to go suicide or drink alcohol(i think all learn from korean dramas).

Not that i dun wan to answer, its really becoming like a chore/obligation to answer the phone try to find things to talk for 4-5hrs and i dun have the freedom to end the call as i wished.

den she also like TS, got impt things dun wan to say in message when she knoe i in sch cannot answer anyhow. most of the time the phone ring 4-5times which i just let it ring so i think its really important so i go out of class answer den its the whole same shit again. Mad in the end i only went back to class when the teacher was just about to dismiss the class den dun wan to mark my attendance. zz..

i think TS what u should do if u like him or wan to be his good friend or what is give him room to breath, if he busy den just ask when he free den you call him at that time. when he say you can message, if u got things really wan to tell him den u better say it in the message, if not when u call him during the free time he has and your problem is so small, if me i will be thinking, u might as well msg me the problem first den i try solve or help you maybe when i on the way to the toilet can think abit before resuming talking to my fren. and den depending how complicated the solution i came up with, i will msg if its easy or call if it needs alot of explaining.

the reply may or may not be fast, it might even be a few days later. I'm our friend so i help you solve your problem, but dun make it seem like you'r my boss and i must help you now and come up wif a solution immediately

passerbyJIA SG

not normal at all if he is fond of you … time to move on woho

yiha093 SG

i also get irriated when sum1 call me when i am with my fren for fun

my 1st reaction
ZZZZZZ Rolling Eyes

browniebaobao SG

u like him izit?

and maybe he thinks u like him, that's why he's treating u this way.

i rarely call my frens to chat..

unless i have a fren who knows that im feeling v v down.. and offers a listening ear.. if not, i would juz bottle up everything to myself.

Zarks SG

i can be that friend.. share your bottle with me la

i alwasy offer my ear. you know it, its cheap

Zarks SG

I think you're tired of ur gf liou.. no more feeling ?

Zarks SG

i got very irritated when ppl call me when im trying to flirt !!

AndrewPKYap SG

I get very irritated by people like you. You said to him: "oh you busy? then bye bye lor."

You ask him a question "oh you busy?" and before he can answer you say: "then bye bye lor."

what the... I get very irritated with people like you... if you tell me "then bye bye lor" I will definitely tell you "Bye bye" since you have made the decision.

Even more irritating, you asked "really??"

what the... you made the decision and then you ask "really??"

If you are not sure then why did you say "then bye bye lor." ???!!!

If what you wanted to talk about was sooooo important then why did you say "then bye bye lor." ???!!!

At the most, you should have asked him "Can we talk, are you busy?" and let him answer.

If he was busy and you inconvenienced him, he would have said, "Sorry I am busy, can we talk later?"

Not you ask a question and answer it and then ask "really??"

What the... people like you irritate the hlel out of me.

You must let people make their own decisions.

Just to let you know and maybe you can change your attitude.

boka SG

Another example of female’s classical indecisiveness.

cloud210 SG

got.. just that I dun wan everyday talk to her, its like a must, not a choice. den if something crops up halfway must put down she make those sad sounds make u feel guilty den after put down liao send some angry sms. like u everything owe her, owe money owe living that kind of life. but still like her lar anways, muz accept her weakness ma. though if she be understanding den that 1 bonus lor

mancha SG

When you have something important, go straight to the point.
Don't "guess whoo" and what not.
You'll make it unimportant, and repeated calls become a nuisance.

ShrodingersCat SG

1. Phone calls doesn't have to happen very often to be irritating
2. Phone calls doesn't have to be long to be irritating.

ShrodingersCat SG

are you a teenager?

*cough* honestly I think these telephone thing.... its a teenage syndrome. A lot of teenage girls, myself included, like to talk on the phone.

They tend to call people even when they have nothing to say. They can just remain silent on the phone, asking inane questions like, "so how what u doing now?""oh, watching tv har...orrr..""i painting my nails leh...""what colour should I paint it..." and of course "what u thinking?" and "why you so quiet" about 101 times.

of course most of the time the guy is playing computer, watching tv, or doing his own thing and not really focusing on the conversation at all.

and after a while, some argument will start (subconscious effort on the girl to REALLY engage the guy in SOME conversation)

M©+square SG

you might actually want to consider that people who closes up their emotional avenue will have a more narrower viewpoints.

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