I think alot of young guys make the mistake of bending too far
backwards to please the object of their affections. The more the
girl gets to do this, the more she'll think you've got no backbone.
Girls make alot of demands, but it's a way of sh*t testing you. We
ladies like to see a strength of character. You
give in too much, you're showing you've got no backbone.
Despite what girls may say to you, always remember that girls like
a guy to be in control. Not to the point of being a control freak,
but be able to "handle" her. For example. At the 1st sign of
disrespect from her, you make it clear you're not happy (by
ignoring her, or talking very little). Then when she calls you
wanting to come out, you make it clear you were not happy over
whatever thing she did to disrespect you, and the only way you will
hang out with her again is if she . If all you want is a kiss, get
that. If all you want is for her to dress sexily, get that. If she
refuses, end the conversation pleasant and short by saying she can
call back when she's ready to make up for her boo-boo.
Whereas, most guys will just try to be "nice" to her, give her
whatever she wants.. she will quickly get bored with such guys. Get
the picture?
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