Is he still interested?

last SG · 2007-09-20T14:08:10+00:00

eat tiger penis. it helps i think

joilin SG

We confirmed our relationship few weeks ago. After that, we never see each other. He never take the initiative to call or sms me. It is always me who call or sms him . His reply is short and sweet. I just feel that I really do not understand him. Is he still interested ? I really wonder if he has a change of heart. Sad

Is it ok for a guy not to contact his gf for a few weeks?

Darkness_hacker99 SG

Maybe he's too shy.

I hope he don't make the same mistake that I made. Neutral

FBI SG

go confront him.. ask why he like heck care attitude

thoreldan SG

shy?

TS already mentioned they're now bf-gf relationship...
what is there to be shy about?

Xephone_xenon SG

Some guys will.

It took 2weeks for me and my ex to hold hand Embarassed

Aaron8209 SG

its not a gd sign…it shows tat hes flirting somewhere out there….to confirm a relationship…first is u must MEET…no matter wat…

<Precious> SG

KNN, a relationship of a few weeks old and already this kinda problem. This is definitely not the norm. Usually at the atart of the relationship, both parties will be lovey-dovey one ma...... cannot get enough of seeing each other.

I seriously think that the guy might be a player..... once he gets you, he loses interest in you...... dun think he is serious in the relationship at all.....

You will be well advised to confront and force the truth outta him - the sooner the better! Evil or Very Mad

bill89 SG

Maybe you can check out with his close frenz who he often hang out with , get enough evidence before you strike , if not later you lose face yourself also ....

But it is abnormal for having a relationship and not contacting one another , and further more , i find that guys should take the initiative ... although i am a guy , but i wont stand on his side now ...

allentyb SG

Why don’t you just call him up and ask him out, and see what is his response, and frankly speaking, i don’t see the issue here….

jojobeach SG

Few weeks ago... and he never meet you after the confirmation.

This is very unusual.

I'd call him up and ask him why is he behaving like a stranger.
Ask him, if he prefers you wear the pants so he can wear the panties instead ?

Goodness girl, drop this guy. He's behaving worst than a girl.

So he thinks after you said yes, he can sit back and enjoy the view ?
What kind of relationship he thinks he is in ?

All I can say is that he is not really interested in keeping the relationship.

Sad to say, even my ugliest girl friend gets better treatment from her boyfriend than this.

Ito_^ SG

just ask him rah. dun anyhow spin stories in ur head.

AndrewPKYap SG

Yes, for guys, many guys, a relationship is a "position". For a girl a "relationship" is an ongoing affair.

Therefore it is possible for a guy to have many girlfriends because these girlfriends are girlfriends in name only. The girl agrees to be his girlfriend and so, she is his girlfriend even if he does not see her regularly.

So it is better to ask a guy, "Do you want to spend as much of your time with me as possible, in asking me to be your girlfriend or do you want me to confirm that I am your girlfriend so you can tell all your friends that you have a girlfriend?"

Don't take it for granted.

de_middle SG

hmmm, didn't know there such guys around Confused

Zarks SG

aiyo so many weak guys here.. why need to be so shy arr?

i dont know la, my dear

but your new guy sure heck make a stupid attitude when u both already together by not calling you for weeks ??? Thats a shyt for me

Zarks SG

easy, u dun have to call or sms him.. let him live in his own world.. if he really love you, he will call u or at least sms to you

take my advice.. ignore him till he make his SO CALLED FIRST CALL to you and u better prepare for rejection.

I dont thk SHY is the prob for any men NOT to call AT ALL !!!

Zarks SG

i scared that will happen also.. Dear, u better prepare la.

angrynor SG

Alot of things are unclear and so many people flaming that guy already?

Maybe work? Exams etc?

Lets TS get things cleared first.

angel7030 SG

Wee! where got bf no call or sms leh?? if my bf like this, I run already liao.

Dear sister, dun be fool by guy of this sort, dun let love blind us, if dun call, forget about it, some are mere cheater to break gal hearts. Have u had sex with him or not. If not let go, if yes, check your blood please.

BadzMaro SG

Smile

dcx SG

Either you didn't give "it" to him or others did better than you....