Need advice

sygatefire SG

well its like this. there's 2 girls that have a crush on me.
girl a used 2 be my 'outside cca' junior.
girl b used 2 be my classmate.

girl a is my gf for 1 month n a few days now. but i kinda like her as a fren, not as a gf. however, i like girl b, n she sounded disappointed when i told her i'm having a gf now.
i wanna choose girl b, but i'm afraid that i'll hurt girl a in the process
so i wanna know who should i choose n wad to say so i wont hurt either party. pls help. thx =)

darkhour SG

in the first place….y r u together with A?

CannyOng SG

Aiya... One month only nia. Just break with A and go for B.(unless u XXX with A)
At young will make mistake one. Is a learning process but no more later like C or D,ok?
Sure of yrself and the one u love!

popikachu SG

See this story...
http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=259363

So you sure who you like? or you sure who you don't like?

Or you sure you love them? Wink

Zarks SG

U kinda like gal A as a fren only then u be together wit her ? Wth ?

U better dont get any gf until you really confirm you really like that gal .. Dman it... are you out of your mind to be with some1 you only consider as a fren only ??!

Zarks SG

i dont understand what that Buddha trying to say lol ..

Mayb i never be in the condition where i love other gal more than my gf

Darkness_hacker99 SG

Rolling Eyes You should burn yourself.

de_middle SG

next time decide properly....ur going to have a problem in everything u do if u cannot make up ur mind Neutral

soulwinner SG

Hey dude it is far too complicated for me... Very Happy

sygatefire SG

thx for the advices =)
guess i missed out 1 part of the problem..
anyway i went out with A for 1 mnth b4 B revealed her feelings for me..just that she was too shy to say it Sad

ifish SG

close ur eyes,
follow ur heart

and everything will be fine

oOprinceOo SG

errr. will bang the wall de. relationships is by action. Cool

Guardx SG

SOP for solving this type of problems

If you feel you no longer love A then is better to break up with her.
One month hurt is better that years of regret.

Take some time off from both of them and find a nice quiet place by yourself and think about it.

At least you are honest with B by telling her you got a gf.

Is up to yourself now if you like B then break up with A.

If you like A then tell yourself that you should stand firm, tell B not to wait for you and to find someone who treats her better.

angel7030 SG

Why? we can handle few guys at a go, u cannot handle two gals at a time meh? Choose D) all the above.

oOprinceOo SG

ltr kena find out he will die cham cham.

yiha093 SG

*ahem* Embarassed Laughing

Father Lim SG

nice piece of advice... u asking him to be a two-timer??
wonderful... just dun complain when some guy two-time you...

PassionInAG SG

3 general solution

1. break with your current gf, stead with e girl u like more
pros: you are able to be with girl u like
cons: both girls know u change yr "love" quickly

2. continue your r/s
pros: both girls know you are faithful
cons: you will not be happy

3. break and stay single. For you to have think about who you really like
pros: you will not be happy but u can go out with 2 of them and able to choose
cons: their feeling might change some day[/b]

jondizzle foshizzle SG

Oh man I’d hate to be your friend. You’d try to date me and kiss me n sh*t.

angel7030 SG

Hi Father,
Why not?
My grandfather also hv 2 wifeys and i heard my great great grandpa had 4 wifeys in the Manchu dynasty, so actually hor, guys can hv lots of gals and wife, is just that the laws today dun permit mah. In some ulu ulu places, man still can marry many wife u know. Places like Africa, cambodia, mynmar, malaysia, indonesia, and most muslim countries. But certainly not Singapore Ulu Pandan ya Laughing

And the funny part is all these wifeys can live together happily.