again i am in agony

last SG · 2007-09-18T18:43:33+00:00

Bro,I was in the same situation as you. you needa ask yourself -Is she really worthy? -Do the memories mean anything? -Will you ever regret your decision? -D...

angel7030 SG

Ah! you hv fallen into gal trap. These are what we are good at, give u the fake love and make u happy to be with us, in return, u give all you hv to us, I admire and praise her skill for doing that to a weak man like you.
One up for gal, yeah!!!

cyrusv2 SG

yes that the one. now shes back to my side. and i have already regain all the financial power i used to have. but i am very caught up with the things that she might have done with that guy(not that thing). i feel weird with her sometimes because i get nightmare like for example.... her kissing that guy. i feel very caught up about it.

cyrusv2 SG

dude if you dont like whinners dont come to aunt agony you arrogant good for nothing. you can always choose to leave this thread it your choice Twisted Evil

cyrusv2 SG

thank you very much..... what you said put me into deep thoughts

cyrusv2 SG

she is not the materialistic type. she dont use all my money away

cyrusv2 SG

are you that type of gal? Cool Cool

jojobeach SG

If I were you.

I'd hold back my feelings, trusts and hope for the time being.

So far, has she done anything to earn her trust from you ?
Other than coming back to your side, that is.

Remember, trust is earned. Respect is earned. And yes, talk is cheap.

Until she has proven herself to be worthy of your love, you really shouldn't bet your life on her being faithful to you in the long term.

So save yourself another heart break.

angel7030 SG

Sometime, depend on the guys, some are just too arrogance and look high upon themselve, then i will con them into my trap, free makan, free shopping, free disco, free drink, then later I run liao, then they called and sms these and that, i just never bother, serve them right....but if i met a good guy, i will treasure and cherish it, listen to him, make him comfortable, take good care of him and make him my man.

Yo, dude, the way u rebuked at that MR Boka look so manly, i love it. Laughing

cyrusv2 SG

you are interesting but lets hope you are a girl....... and WOW!!!!

cyrusv2 SG

sigh thats why i am in agony i dont know she is worth my time Crying or Very sad

i love this girl a lot

jojobeach SG

When you don't know. Find out.

Observe, listen, feel with your gut instinct.

boka SG

Why,the case of a baby not accepting he cannot walk on two's before four's.

U are a disgrace to the male race.

Isis SG

Well love is about trusting too. Love isn't about owning a person.
If this goes on for long, the relationship will break.

Just like holding too tightly onto a soap, it will slip.

jojobeach SG

I don't quite get what is it you are still confused with.

When you mean worth your time, are you expecting some kind of return from her?

If you truly love this girl so much, you'd be willing to throw it all away, without the slightest tinge of doubt.

Because, when a love is without regret, it is true love.
It seems not to apply in your case.

Love doesn't have to be blind.
Love does not leave you exhausted and torn apart.

Think about it for a moment, you certainly wouldn't die without her. So why put yourself through such sufferings ?

cyrusv2 SG

dude do you want to start a flaming war? or else F off my thread as i have said its your choice not to view my thread. And also you have no right to say i am a disgrace to the male race because i have serious doubts about your gender Rolling Eyes

cyrusv2 SG

hmmm for me i put in all i had for her once but she broke my heart and went away with another guy..... i dont mind the things i have given to her(time and money) but if i know after all i have done and she cheats on me..... i would have the feeling of being cheated. that is the feeling that would tear me apart. the confused part about me is i dont know how to trust her without doubts again....... my gut instinct tells me she is not telling me the truth all the time.( maybe i am wrong about this ).......... its just very frustrating right now Crying or Very sad

ispyyy SG

When I love her, I wont feel insecure with her..
When I want to be with her, I never thought tat she will leave me one day...

it all depends on how much love u have on her...
Love can sometimes do bend one's knee and let one begging "please"
no matter how strong that one is...

boka SG

THIS THREAD REEKS OF INSECURITY.

U ARE IN AGONY BECAUSE U ARE AN ISECURE GAY,THIS IS YOUR ISSUES,NOT OURS.
SINCE U NOW KNOW IT IS YOUR ISSUE,THINK AND SOLVE IT YOURSELF.

U NEED GUIDANCE WITH SUCH A SIMPLE ISSUES?
NOW NOW,WHERE'S THE DIAPERS.

boka SG

THat is Loving till the point of posession.
And when that happens,it means being posessive.

no gals like anyone who is clingy and going down on your knees doesn't make u anymore noble.

Read "attraction isn't a choice" by david deangolo.
U tink begging makes u more wanted?
sorry homie,but it makes u a turn off.

Gals by nature do not want a guy who go on their knees,they want gals who can dominate and the moment u place her on pedestal,GAME OVER.

jojobeach SG

You don't mind the time and money you invested ?
Yes you do mind. That is why you are so confused right now.

For you to trust her without doubts, she needs to prove herself worthy of your trust. It is not up to you to trust her, just because you love her.

Your gut instinct tells you she is not truthful, simply because she hasn't been truthful. So why are you denying it ?
You cannot force yourself to trust a person.

Seriously, this relationship will not survive, the most important fundamentals are not even present.
Trust and Communications.

My suggestion to you is to let this one go.
Unless you are a sucker for punishments, then please go ahead. Whining about it here wouldn't do you much good.

May lady luck be with you.

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