How do you know you have get over with a broken r/s?

PassionInAG SG

Any ideas?

Situation: 2 years relationship both of us enjoyed times being together, broke up 3 mths ago, due to her upset and disappointment in my broken promises.

Currently: I chat with her very seldom(1 times per week) on face-to-face, msn and sms. Still hang out with her because we have common group of friends. Whenever I'm alone, my mind would drift to the happy times with her. Listen to certain songs will remind of her.

We will be having dinner soon.

mhcampboy SG

2 years together... so it takes abt half of the time u were together to get over someone...

so it will take u 1 yr..! Very Happy

PassionInAG SG

lol, i guess i gotta spend e next 8 mths in NS

Xephone_xenon SG

Thats a good way to forget.

nanren4ever SG

I knew I had gotten over my ex when I
1)looked at the pictures of us and feel nothing.
2) go out with her alone, and I am not thinking of getting into her skirt
3)saw her with her new bf, and I am able to smile and say congrats.

de_middle SG

never actually kept track of such things.....feelings just faded as time passes by Neutral

angel7030 SG

Huh! U got feeling one meh? I thot u only go for sex?

dumbdumb! SG

hmm. for me.. 1 and 1/2 year just past..

i still think back sometimes.

de_middle SG

Rolling Eyes

Chris1988 SG

eh at least now break not so bad. later you become the next co ckster to run out with the SAR21 rifle.

from the way things are going for you i guess you haven't gotten over it bah. true no doubt NS is a good method to make you forget but make sure you don't slack off. if not at night you cannot sleep keep on think you next morn no energy + no mood.

sometimes such stuff are inevitable. haiis.

Zarks SG

.

hmm. for me.. 2 years just past..

i still think back sometimes

dumbdumb! SG

first love ah?

yiha093 SG

when she sms/call/contact u and u dun feel anything.....
juz feeling like, ' orh'

popikachu SG

Don't think of the word call 'patch'.

If you still hope to be with her together, of course, you won't get over easily...

A lot of people still hope of getting patch back with their ex, hoping that miracles will happen, thats why the sadness stays with them.

Get over it...
Lifes still goes on...
You have to worried about your NS now Wink

Darkness_hacker99 SG

Time for you to come back to reality.

PassionInAG SG

Thanks for sharing!

1)Every I look at our pictures together, I would have a sweet feeling.
2)That was part of the reason why we broke up, minor one though Evil or Very Mad
3)She hasn't got a bf yet, but she did say she still like me but we're not suitable.

Lol, I guess if you get a new one, then feelings will faded away, thats what happens to me. But right now, I have no mood or interest in getting a new one, just wanna concentrate on upgrading myself

Totally agreed with you man! You never know how NS could changed ppl life Razz

Sms, i'll say 'orh' but calling and seeing her makes me think other way :S

True, thanks for your advice

I'm back Razz

dumbdumb! and Zarks, thanks for sharing

Edited!

yiha093 SG

i think the latter better
not fair for the gal? Rolling Eyes

Cool-gal SG

when i realised im not thinking of him anymore.
and im feelingless when chatting with him.

dokono SG

Then it's time for a new girl dude. Or you can focus on other things that are non-relationship.

doko

PassionInAG SG

So what are you thinking about, that makes you not thinking of him? Or its just feelings fade off?