help with girl!!

mints SG

im attach to this girl for 1 month le,we have been ok so far.then few days ago she msged and crapped with me.everything seems fine.but yesterday i heard her fren A tell me she wan me give up on her.then got another fren B say shes not mine anymore,i havent talk to my gf.wat u think i should do?
(jus hearing for opionions,thinking abt asking her face to face tml though)

Darkness_hacker99 SG

Maybe you should do it immediately. Call her and meet her near her house. Then have a talk with her about this issue.

May I ask how old two of you are?

de_middle SG

ask her...then come back & post again. Dun listen to gossips Laughing

Aaron8209 SG

better give up..guess this gal is not serious at all..dun waste ur time

Darkness_hacker99 SG

Yes. Don’t listen to gossip. The word is trust. You must trust her.

cApitaland SG

ask her. maybe fren B is lusting for you. or maybe your gf is testing you through fren B.

de_middle SG

thank euu for agreeing wib me Embarassed

Darkness_hacker99 SG

Embarassed

mints SG

the 5min thing is irritating..hm..I really want to trust her but the 2 people i heard from are her close friends.they are also the first to know tat she like me..

de_middle SG

the closer the friends the more dangerous they are Laughing

Zarks SG

1 month only ma.. puppy love one

Darkness_hacker99 SG

The 5min thingy is prevent spam from people creating multiple accounts. Bear with it, it'll be over after your 20th post.

Close friends huh. Neutral

Maybe this is a test? To test your love for her?

It could be also the real thing too. And that her feeling for you is gone.

de_middle SG

i wonder whether TS got try something funny that he isn't aware off Laughing

mints SG

aiyo...she test me for what.hm...guess i have to ask her tmr..

Nopes..so far i havent try anything funny.

Darkness_hacker99 SG

Could it be..

You didn't buy her gifts/ flowers?

The time spent between two of you are too short?

You don't understand her feelings?

You quarreled with her?

de_middle SG

err....think think think again Laughing

mints SG

i do occasionaly buy her gifts.

its not abt the quantity mah,its about the quality.but i do admit its kinda short.

she once told my fren i dont really understand her..but it happened quite long ago.

havent quarreled.

de_middle SG

only one month leh & u mention quite long Rolling Eyes
perhaps it good to let go, she could be shy to tell u the truth.

Try keeping quiet & see if she contact u, if no then what was being said was indeed true, how good idea anot Laughing

Darkness_hacker99 SG

Like many people in here will agree, Communication is really a very important factor in maintaining a healthy relationship.

Do communicate more often, tell her about how you feel and what are your opinions regard different issues. Then listen to her opinion and views.

mints SG

I really wish to..but i couldnt cus we are both busy nowadays tat we rarely have time for each other.but we really do treasure the times we had together..well for me,tat is.
if this relationship really crumbles down then i shall take it as u dont receive as much as wat u give