Originally posted by Serene_Lee:
I haven't read those yet.
I'm trying to understand your question "I don't know what to
do".
If you want me to tell you what to do. I cannot do that because I
cannot make decisions for people. I make suggestions and provide
advice then people decide on what they want.
If you are asking me for a solution to your appearance, then you
have come to the wrong professional. I cannot advice you
professionally or change your appearance to your
satisfaction.
However, if you want me to improve your
self-esteem, feel good about yourself, feel less jealous of other's
looks, look at things in a bigger perspective, go through life with
a lighter and happier heart and you are [b]open and willing
to go through therapy with me. Yes, I can do it. Ask
yourself one question, you know your limits.
Do you want to be a guy with ordinary looks but possess a natural
down to earth charm, poise, good manners, full of positive energy
such that when people are with you, they feel so good that they get
attracted to you and they love being with you because you make them
so happy? Or... that guy who spends his time focusing on the things
that you can't do much about nothing about and get so frustrated
and demoralized that you carry so much negative energy repelling
people away. [/b]
That is what i want. Id kindly a[ppreciate help