My first relationship was when I was in Sec 1. The girl was my
classmate and I felt that she was perfect for me, kind, nice and
helpful to everyone. Unfortunately, my insecurity, insincerity, and
infidelity caused me to lose her. It hurt me then, it still hurts
to this day. Although we are now still friends, and keep in touch
occasionally, I sometimes wonder if I hadn't done the things I had
done, how would we be now. My results did suffer, and out of a
class of 40, I was position number 34 at the end of the year, but i
think that's because of my lack of motivation more than
anything.
My second relationship was also in my secondary school, albeit a
different girl who was my junior. She's the sporty, cheerful type
who excels in sports and also in dance. She didn't wanted 2 enter a
relationship with me at first because she failed that our studies
would suffer, so I had to prove to her that I could do well during
my mid-year exams. We were together for less than 6 months before
we broke up just before my O-levels, but I must say she really
pushed me to do my best for my O-levels coz I went from being in
the worst class in the Express stream to be the only one from my
class to go to JC.
All in all, its up to urself. If all u do is spend ur time with the
girl/guy u like without caring about ur studies, of course u will
suffer. But if u know when's the time to spend time with the other
half, and when's the time to be serious and study, then u shouldn't
have a problem.
