Damage control to yourself?
Rise of breakups is an excuse...ang mohs is an excuse...what's
wrong with being a nice person? Are you supposed to be evil and
ill-treat girls? Divorces are the result of poor partner judgement.
All these point to yourself, your growth as a person.
Have you realised all these external factors are a challenge to
your inner qualities? If you are truly confident of yourself, need
you be afraid of these factors you've mentioned? You would still
carry out your mission, would ya? Are you willing to face all
adversary and grow or just keep blaming on others?
Competition is bound to be there. Even if all the factors you;ve
mentioned are removed, can you truly be confident to win a girl's
heart ?
The more I looked at it, the more I think it starts from yourself,
not from others.
Get a grip.
doko